First,
it was Angelina
Jolie and Brad
Pitt. Then it was Madonna.
Now Sandra Bullock has
joined the collective of celebrities adopting black babies.
Bullock appeared on the cover of People magazine with Louis,
her newly adopted and, admittedly very cute, child. It's a lovely
photo yet also one that evokes a variety of emotions. It's undeniable
that there is something out of the ordinary about white people adopting
black children. This is even more so in the case of celebrities,
where it seems to have become a trend in recent years.
As
Bullock's case shows, a white celebrity adopting a black child raises
questions as well as suspicions. Why do they want a black baby as
opposed to a white one, when there are also white kids who are up
for adoption? Are they buying in to the idea that poor black children
must be saved by altruistic white people (ironically, one of the
themes in Bullock's latest movie 'Blindside')?
Or in the case of celebrities, is a black child just another accessory
or another save-the-world mission that they embark on in between
movies?
In an ideal world none of this would matter. We are all people,
after all, and children need love and good parenting; however, this
is not an ideal world and the topic is more complex than that. For
a long time, the adoption of black children by white parents was
not allowed in the United States. Changing racial attitudes and
a large increase in black children in the foster care system - 32% of the 510,000 children
in foster care are now black - meant
that since 1994, when the Multiethnic Placement Act was
passed, it has been illegal to consider race, national origin or
color as a factor when determining who would make a suitable adoptive
parent.
The very point of making the consideration of race illegal was to
ensure that black children were indeed taken home by white families.
This has little to do with altruism and more to do with necessity
due to the sheer numbers of black children in the system and the
lack of black families to take care of them all. The numbers of
white parents adopting black kids has been growing: According to
the New York Times' analysis of official
data, 26 percent of adopted black children in 2004 were adopted
by mostly white parents, which was up from 14 percent in 1998. In
the 2000 census, some 16,000 white households had adopted black
children.
Bullock is, like the other celebrities who have adopted black children,
wealthy, successful and apparently socially and mentally well adjusted.
Why should it matter that she is not of the same race as her child?
Would we really rather that black children remain in foster care
rather than be adopted by a white person?
This is where the issue of the cultural and psychological impact
of trans-racial adoption comes in to play. Again we are led to ask
more questions: What are, for example, the cultural implications
for a black child that is raised by a white family? Do they struggle
to find themselves?
Some studies -- including a 2008 study by the Evan
B Donaldson Adoption Institute, which was endorsed by several
prominent organizations -- have suggested that black children raised
in white adopted families have a difficult time adjusting to being
different in an all-white environment.
The National Association of Black Social Workers felt
so strongly about this issue that, back in the early '70s, it branded
trans-racial adoption "cultural genocide." The workers
wrote:
"The
National Association of Black Social Workers has taken a vehement
stand against the placement of black children in white homes for
any reason. We affirm the inviolable position of black children
in black families where they belong physically, psychologically
and culturally in order that they receive the total sense of themselves
and develop a sound projection of their future."
There is definitely something to be said for the importance
of a deep-rooted sense of culture and heritage and growing up around
other people who look like you. It can be hard for someone who is
not black to really grasp exactly what that means and how important
that is for a person's psyche. Even the most culturally aware white
person cannot know what it is like to be black, and I doubt whether
it is something they could be taught or teach. Hopefully, Bullock
has some great black people in her life who can connect with the
child and provide that for him.
Maybe
in the celebrity world, though, where those children are adopted
in to worlds of influence, opportunity, wealth and power, the impact
of race matters less. Mostly when we consider the barriers put up
by societal notions of race, they tend to be based around access
to the very material things and opportunities that such high-profile
people can provide with ease. One could also argue that even black
children in black families go through some period of figuring out
who they are and what their identity is. It is not as if black children
in black families do not wrestle with those issues themselves. Look
at Michael Jackson.
Some might ask, though, that if it's hard enough being black in
a black family, wouldn't it be harder in a white family? But there
are also a number of biracial children who grow up with white parents
and who face what would apparently be some of the same issues faced
by black children in white adopted homes, and we do not say that
people of different races should not have babies together. President
Barack Obama does not seem to have been psychologically
traumatized by growing up with a white mother and grandmother. What
is the difference?
Black children are over represented in the adoption system,
making up 32 percent of all children in foster care (compared to
40 percent who are white), despite black people being in significantly
smaller numbers in the general population. They stay longer in the
system, tend to experience multiple placements and find it harder
to be placed with one permanent family. In light of that, is this
really a case worth debating at all? Isn't it better for children
of any race to go to a good home rather than spend their lives in
foster care?
And,
there is a key point that we are forgetting: Black kids are in foster
homes because black parents put them there. If we would prefer not
to have black children raised by non-black parents, we should do
a better job of keeping them out of the foster care system in the
first place. And, if we black people do feel strongly about this,
it is incumbent on all of us to ensure that we help people like
Sandra Bullock make sure that their child is well adjusted and supported.
What do you think?
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