| If it 
                      were Fox News I wouldn�t have flinched. But it was National 
                      Public Radio.  To 
                      my surprise, I didn�t know, especially in 2011, my sexual 
                      orientation was still up for debate. But on August 1 on 
                      the �Morning Edition� of National Public Radio (NPR) it 
                      was. The topic on the show that morning was �Can 
                      Therapy Help Change Sexual Orientation?�
 �Today 
                      in Your Health, a controversy that is both political and 
                      personal. Conversion therapy is psychotherapy which aims 
                      to help gay men and women become straight. It�s hardly new, 
                      but it�s in the news again because the mental health clinic 
                      run by the husband of Republican presidential candidate 
                      Michele Bachmann reportedly provides such therapy,� Renee 
                      Montagne, host of �Morning Edition� stated. My 
                      head spins at the thought of how Christian counseling services, 
                      like Dr. Marcus Bachmann�s, still get so much air time, 
                      especially, in spite of the voluminous information 
                      disputing the pseudo-science of �ex-gay� conversion therapies. Just 
                      three years ago, the American Psychological Association 
                      put out an official position paper stating �The longstanding 
                      consensus of the behavioral and social sciences and the 
                      health and mental health professions is that homosexuality 
                      per se is a normal and positive variation of human sexual 
                      orientation.� The 
                      negative health outcomes both emotional and psychological 
                      these �conversion� programs exact are untold, like depression, 
                      anxiety, self-destructive behavior, sexual dysfunction, 
                      avoidance of intimacy, loss of faith and spirituality, and 
                      the reinforcement of internalized homophobia and self-hatred, 
                      to name a few. �It took really hard 
                      work to get my brain back and to recover from the emotional 
                      and psychological damage that I had experienced under that 
                      care,� Peterson Toscano, a theatrical performance activist, 
                      stated on NPR. Toscano spent 17 years in conversion therapies 
                      and faith-based ex-gay programs. Today he�s the co-founder 
                      of �Beyond 
                      Ex-Gay,� an online community to help ex-gay survivors.  However, 
                      there are still groups, usually motivated by religion-based 
                      homophobic therapies and ministries like Bachman�s, who 
                      are hell-bent on the idea that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender 
                      and queer (LGBTQ) Americans can and should be made straight.
 And these groups proselytize 
                      ex-gay rhetoric as both their Christian and patriotic duty. For example, �Pray the 
                      Gay Away?,� on an episode of the television series �Our 
                      America with Lisa Ling,� that aired on OWN: 
                      Oprah Winfrey Network on March 8th of this year, 
                      Alan Chambers, president of Exodus 
                      International, an ex-gay organization, spoke 
                      about his sure-fire remedy for us LGBTQ �prodigal� children, 
                      and how his organization can help us reconcile our faith, 
                      mend our sinful lives ,and finally walk away from our supposedly 
                      wrong-headed �lifestyle� choice. There are hordes of 
                      supposedly ex-gay �converts� who�ll be poster children for 
                      these conversion therapies. But truth be told, their conversions 
                      from being �homosexual� to �heterosexual� didn�t �cure� 
                      their homosexual predilections, but rather these therapies 
                      attempted to put LGBTQ people on the road to outwardly live 
                      a straight life. �It 
                      meant probably walking away from my religion, not having 
                      the wife and children of my future that I would expect, 
                      lots of shame and conflict with family and others. It was 
                      just devastating to contemplate.� Rich Wyler, who grew up 
                      in a Christian conservative family, stated on NPR. 
 But, the truth is that 
                      these �ex-gay� reparative therapies don�t� work, have a 
                      failure rate of 90 percent, and several �ex-gay� groups 
                      over the years have had to shut down when their leaders 
                      finally dealt with the reality of their own homosexuality. Case in point: John 
                      Paulk, �ex-gay� poster boy, who appeared in HRC�s 2000 photo 
                      album with a one-word caption: �Gotcha!� Wayne Besen, then the 
                      associate director of communications of HRC, captured that 
                      Kodak moment as he snapped a picture of the then-37-year-old 
                      Paulk in a Washington D.C. gay bar. In 
                      the moment, pandemonium broke out in the bar, as the series 
                      of flashes from Besen�s camera were assumed by some to be 
                      those of a homophobe harassing a patron. But as Paulk hunched 
                      down trying to conceal his face, he learned that he could 
                      neither run nor hide. Paulk says he went into the bar just 
                      to use the bathroom - an unlikely story, as 40 minutes after 
                      entering the bar, he was still there, keeping company with 
                      both a drink and a fellow patron. Paulk, a former drag 
                      queen known as Candi and a one-time first runner-up in the 
                      Miss Ingenue pageant, is presently married to a self-proclaimed 
                      former lesbian who also underwent counseling in an �ex-gay� 
                      ministry run by Exodus International. Today, they both don 
                      the drag of being heterosexually married. They prominently 
                      graced the cover of �Newsweek� in August 1998, appeared 
                      on �60 Minutes� and Oprah, and wrote the book that gave 
                      Focus on the Family its name for its �ex-gay� conferences: 
                      �Love Won Out,� a memoir depicting the Paulks� flight from 
                      gayhood. 
 �Conversion� therapies 
                      are a tool used by right-wing religious organizations to 
                      raise money and advocate against LGBTQ civil rights. With 
                      this money, these organizations are able to produce politically 
                      and religiously Biased Agenda-Driven (aptly abbreviated 
                      as �B.A.D.�) science like �reparative therapies,� attempting 
                      to justify them by presenting LGBTQ people as genetically 
                      flawed - a charge eerily reminiscent of the scientific racism 
                      and sexism that once undergirded treatment of blacks and 
                      women morally inferior due to supposed genetic flaws. Fox New is no friend 
                      to the LGBTQ community. But now I�m wondering about NPR. BlackCommentator.com 
                      Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a religion 
                      columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of 
                      the African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and 
                      Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific 
                      School of Religion. 
                      A native of Brooklyn, 
                      Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley College and Union 
                      Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served 
                      as a pastor at an African-American church before coming 
                      to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow. 
                      She was recently named to MSNBC�s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author 
                      of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible 
                      Prayers for Not�So�Everyday Moments. As an African-American 
                      feminist theologian, she speaks for a sector of society 
                      that is frequently invisible. Her website 
                      is irenemonroe.com. 
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