If it
were Fox News I wouldn’t have flinched. But it was National
Public Radio.
To
my surprise, I didn’t know, especially in 2011, my sexual
orientation was still up for debate. But on August 1 on
the “Morning Edition” of National Public Radio (NPR) it
was. The topic on the show that morning was “Can
Therapy Help Change Sexual Orientation?”
“Today
in Your Health, a controversy that is both political and
personal. Conversion therapy is psychotherapy which aims
to help gay men and women become straight. It’s hardly new,
but it’s in the news again because the mental health clinic
run by the husband of Republican presidential candidate
Michele Bachmann reportedly provides such therapy,” Renee
Montagne, host of “Morning Edition” stated.
My
head spins at the thought of how Christian counseling services,
like Dr. Marcus Bachmann’s, still get so much air time,
especially, in spite of the voluminous information
disputing the pseudo-science of “ex-gay” conversion therapies.
Just
three years ago, the American Psychological Association
put out an official position paper stating “The longstanding
consensus of the behavioral and social sciences and the
health and mental health professions is that homosexuality
per se is a normal and positive variation of human sexual
orientation.”
The
negative health outcomes both emotional and psychological
these “conversion” programs exact are untold, like depression,
anxiety, self-destructive behavior, sexual dysfunction,
avoidance of intimacy, loss of faith and spirituality, and
the reinforcement of internalized homophobia and self-hatred,
to name a few.
“It took really hard
work to get my brain back and to recover from the emotional
and psychological damage that I had experienced under that
care,” Peterson Toscano, a theatrical performance activist,
stated on NPR. Toscano spent 17 years in conversion therapies
and faith-based ex-gay programs. Today he’s the co-founder
of “Beyond
Ex-Gay,” an online community to help ex-gay survivors.
However,
there are still groups, usually motivated by religion-based
homophobic therapies and ministries like Bachman’s, who
are hell-bent on the idea that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender
and queer (LGBTQ) Americans can and should be made straight.
And these groups proselytize
ex-gay rhetoric as both their Christian and patriotic duty.
For example, “Pray the
Gay Away?,” on an episode of the television series “Our
America with Lisa Ling,” that aired on OWN:
Oprah Winfrey Network on March 8th of this year,
Alan Chambers, president of Exodus
International, an ex-gay organization, spoke
about his sure-fire remedy for us LGBTQ “prodigal” children,
and how his organization can help us reconcile our faith,
mend our sinful lives ,and finally walk away from our supposedly
wrong-headed “lifestyle” choice.
There are hordes of
supposedly ex-gay “converts” who’ll be poster children for
these conversion therapies. But truth be told, their conversions
from being “homosexual” to “heterosexual” didn’t “cure”
their homosexual predilections, but rather these therapies
attempted to put LGBTQ people on the road to outwardly live
a straight life.
“It
meant probably walking away from my religion, not having
the wife and children of my future that I would expect,
lots of shame and conflict with family and others. It was
just devastating to contemplate.” Rich Wyler, who grew up
in a Christian conservative family, stated on NPR.
But, the truth is that
these “ex-gay” reparative therapies don’t’ work, have a
failure rate of 90 percent, and several “ex-gay” groups
over the years have had to shut down when their leaders
finally dealt with the reality of their own homosexuality.
Case in point: John
Paulk, “ex-gay” poster boy, who appeared in HRC’s 2000 photo
album with a one-word caption: “Gotcha!”
Wayne Besen, then the
associate director of communications of HRC, captured that
Kodak moment as he snapped a picture of the then-37-year-old
Paulk in a Washington D.C. gay bar. In
the moment, pandemonium broke out in the bar, as the series
of flashes from Besen’s camera were assumed by some to be
those of a homophobe harassing a patron. But as Paulk hunched
down trying to conceal his face, he learned that he could
neither run nor hide. Paulk says he went into the bar just
to use the bathroom - an unlikely story, as 40 minutes after
entering the bar, he was still there, keeping company with
both a drink and a fellow patron.
Paulk, a former drag
queen known as Candi and a one-time first runner-up in the
Miss Ingenue pageant, is presently married to a self-proclaimed
former lesbian who also underwent counseling in an “ex-gay”
ministry run by Exodus International. Today, they both don
the drag of being heterosexually married. They prominently
graced the cover of “Newsweek” in August 1998, appeared
on “60 Minutes” and Oprah, and wrote the book that gave
Focus on the Family its name for its “ex-gay” conferences:
“Love Won Out,” a memoir depicting the Paulks’ flight from
gayhood.
“Conversion” therapies
are a tool used by right-wing religious organizations to
raise money and advocate against LGBTQ civil rights. With
this money, these organizations are able to produce politically
and religiously Biased Agenda-Driven (aptly abbreviated
as “B.A.D.”) science like “reparative therapies,” attempting
to justify them by presenting LGBTQ people as genetically
flawed - a charge eerily reminiscent of the scientific racism
and sexism that once undergirded treatment of blacks and
women morally inferior due to supposed genetic flaws.
Fox New is no friend
to the LGBTQ community. But now I’m wondering about NPR.
BlackCommentator.com
Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a religion
columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of
the African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and
Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific
School of Religion.
A native of Brooklyn,
Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley College and Union
Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served
as a pastor at an African-American church before coming
to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow.
She was recently named to MSNBC’s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author
of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible
Prayers for Not’So’Everyday Moments. As an African-American
feminist theologian, she speaks for a sector of society
that is frequently invisible. Her website
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