All 
                      couples like to bring the New Year in on a loving note. 
                    And 
                      what better way for two lesbian priests of the Episcopal 
                      Church to demonstrate their commitment to each other than 
                      in holy matrimony. 
                    Before 
                      a jubilant crowd of 400 guests on New Year�s Day, the Rev. 
                      Mally Lloyd, former pastor at Christ Church in Plymouth, 
                      and now a ranking official of the Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts 
                      married the Rev. Katherine Ragsdale, dean and president 
                      of the Episcopal Divinity School in Cambridge, MA. And Bishop 
                      M. Thomas Shaw, the state�s highest ranking Episcopal official, 
                      presided. 
                    No 
                      doubt, Lloyd and Ragsdale�s nuptial is historic. And both 
                      should be applauded for their courageous act. 
                    The 
                      news of their wedding is traveling swiftly throughout the 
                      Episcopal Church. And while many of us here in Massachusetts, 
                      one of a few U. S. states that legalize same-sex marriages, 
                      rejoice of Lloyd and Ragsdale�s news, the fallout, which 
                      many are anticipating, from the conservative arm of the 
                      church will, perhaps, not be a quiet storm. 
                      
                    The 
                      Rev. Mark Richardson, dean of the Episcopal Church 
                      Divinity School of the Pacific in Berkeley, recognizes the 
                      possible storm that might ensue, but for now is downplaying 
                      the possible impact of Lloyd and Ragsdale's marriage by 
                      conveying his blessings stating, "I am grateful that 
                      their life together can have this public recognition.� 
                    Lloyd 
                      hopes her fellow Episcopalians won�t focus on their nuptials 
                      as a �gay marriage,� but rather as �a commitment and marriage 
                      like any other.� 
                    �We 
                      are asking God�s blessing, and asking the community and 
                      our friends to bless our marriage,� Lloyd told The Patriot 
                      Ledger. 
                    Lloyd 
                      and Ragsdale are fortunate priests in that their nuptials 
                      was legalized by the state of Massachusetts and �solemnize� 
                      in the language of the Episcopal Church. 
                    But, 
                      our first openly gay bishop, the Rev. V. Gene Robinson of 
                      New Hampshire, wasn�t so lucky. 
                    The 
                      Reverend V. Gene Robinson said that he �always wanted to 
                      be a June bride.� 
                    And 
                      in a private ceremony that took place five years to the 
                      day from when he was elected as the ninth bishop of the 
                      Diocese of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church, U.S.A., 
                      Robinson and his partner of 20 years, Mark Andrew, said, 
                      �I do� in a civil union at St. Paul�s Episcopal Church in 
                      Concord, NH in June 2008. 
                    For 
                      those of us who gathered that June weekend at St. Paul�s 
                      Episcopal Church in Concord, NH, we came to do what the 
                      celebrant (an officiant, to you non-churchgoing folk) asked 
                      of us: �to witness the joining of Gene and Mark in civil 
                      union and to do all in our power to support them in their 
                      commitment.� 
                    As 
                      the news of the Church�s first openly gay, non-celibate 
                      priest to be consecrated as bishop reverberated throughout 
                      the worldwide Anglican Communion half a decade ago, so, 
                      too, did the news of his civil union. 
                    But 
                      a blogger reading the headline in Religion & Ethics 
                      that stated: �Gay bishop, partner plan civil union,� asked 
                      an important question: �If he is a bishop why should he 
                      have a civil union? Shouldn�t he have a church wedding?� 
                    The 
                      news of Lloyd and Ragsdale�s wedding will no doubt bring 
                      up the question of biblical heresy among conservatives. 
                    But 
                      for those who will argue about the �authority of Scripture� 
                      it doesn�t hold weight here because the Episcopal Church 
                      has always been challenged on this issue.  
                    For 
                      example, in the 1970s, the argument for authority of Scripture 
                      came up with the ordination of women � and so, too, did 
                      the threat of a schism. But in 1989, the Church consecrated 
                      its first female bishop � Barbara C. Harris. And conservatives 
                      were not only theologically outraged, but also racially 
                      challenged because Harris is African American.  
                      
                    And 
                      in 2006, gasps of both exhilaration and exasperation reverberated 
                      throughout the Anglican Communion when it was announced 
                      that Katharine Jefferts Schori would be the Presiding Bishop 
                      of the Episcopal Church USA.   
                    All 
                      this is no surprise, however, since the Episcopal Church 
                      has a history of taking the moral high ground on social 
                      justice issues. 
                    On 
                      the theological rift concerning American slavery, the Episcopal 
                      Church rebuked the Bible�s literal interpretation, arguing 
                      that slavery violated the spirit of the Bible. 
                    Boston's 
                      Old North Church, which played an active role in the American 
                      Revolution, served as a beacon for Paul Revere�s �midnight 
                      ride.� 
                    The 
                      Emmanuel Episcopal Church in Cumberland, Md., was a major 
                      stop on the Underground Railroad. 
                      
                    I 
                      remember the preacher at Robinson's consecration. He was 
                      the Rt. Rev. Douglas E. Theuner who was succeeded by Robinson. 
                      Theuner preached about the necessary shift that must take 
                      place in the church in order for it to be inclusive of all 
                      people, not just with LGBTQ people. He said:  
                     
                      When 
                        we attempt to bring the margins into the center, we necessarily 
                        push the center to the margins. If Canterbury or New York, 
                        for instance, wishes to help Nigeria or West Indies move 
                        toward the center, then for everyone to continue to occupy 
                        the space available, Canterbury and New York must willing 
                        move toward the margin. We who have been in the center 
                        don't like moving to the margin, event to different places 
                        on it, but we must do that if we're gong to affirm the 
                        marginalized. That was the thrust of our Lord's ministry 
                        . . . Welcome to the life where Jesus lived it . . . on 
                        the margin!  
                     
                    For 
                      me, the joy in this moment of knowing about the holy matrimony 
                      of Lloyd and Ragsdale is that the Episcopal Church 
                      crawls toward inclusiveness, albeit haltingly, and in spite 
                      of opposition. 
                    And 
                      for those of us on the margins in our churches and faith 
                      communities we need to see the principle of love in action. 
                    And 
                      the wedding of Lloyd and Ragsdale is one such example. 
                    BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a 
                      religion columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of the 
                      African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion 
                      and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific School of Religion. A native of Brooklyn, Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley 
                      College and Union Theological Seminary at Columbia University, 
                      and served as a pastor at an African-American church before 
                      coming to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a 
                      Ford Fellow. She was recently named to MSNBC�s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author 
                      of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible 
                      Prayers for Not�So�Everyday Moments. As an African-American feminist theologian, she speaks for 
                      a sector of society that is frequently invisible. Her website is irenemonroe.com. 
                      Click here to contact the Rev. Monroe. 
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