All
couples like to bring the New Year in on a loving note.
And
what better way for two lesbian priests of the Episcopal
Church to demonstrate their commitment to each other than
in holy matrimony.
Before
a jubilant crowd of 400 guests on New Year’s Day, the Rev.
Mally Lloyd, former pastor at Christ Church in Plymouth,
and now a ranking official of the Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts
married the Rev. Katherine Ragsdale, dean and president
of the Episcopal Divinity School in Cambridge, MA. And Bishop
M. Thomas Shaw, the state’s highest ranking Episcopal official,
presided.
No
doubt, Lloyd and Ragsdale’s nuptial is historic. And both
should be applauded for their courageous act.
The
news of their wedding is traveling swiftly throughout the
Episcopal Church. And while many of us here in Massachusetts,
one of a few U. S. states that legalize same-sex marriages,
rejoice of Lloyd and Ragsdale’s news, the fallout, which
many are anticipating, from the conservative arm of the
church will, perhaps, not be a quiet storm.
The
Rev. Mark Richardson, dean of the Episcopal Church
Divinity School of the Pacific in Berkeley, recognizes the
possible storm that might ensue, but for now is downplaying
the possible impact of Lloyd and Ragsdale's marriage by
conveying his blessings stating, "I am grateful that
their life together can have this public recognition.”
Lloyd
hopes her fellow Episcopalians won’t focus on their nuptials
as a “gay marriage,” but rather as “a commitment and marriage
like any other.”
“We
are asking God’s blessing, and asking the community and
our friends to bless our marriage,” Lloyd told The Patriot
Ledger.
Lloyd
and Ragsdale are fortunate priests in that their nuptials
was legalized by the state of Massachusetts and “solemnize”
in the language of the Episcopal Church.
But,
our first openly gay bishop, the Rev. V. Gene Robinson of
New Hampshire, wasn’t so lucky.
The
Reverend V. Gene Robinson said that he “always wanted to
be a June bride.”
And
in a private ceremony that took place five years to the
day from when he was elected as the ninth bishop of the
Diocese of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church, U.S.A.,
Robinson and his partner of 20 years, Mark Andrew, said,
“I do” in a civil union at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in
Concord, NH in June 2008.
For
those of us who gathered that June weekend at St. Paul’s
Episcopal Church in Concord, NH, we came to do what the
celebrant (an officiant, to you non-churchgoing folk) asked
of us: “to witness the joining of Gene and Mark in civil
union and to do all in our power to support them in their
commitment.”
As
the news of the Church’s first openly gay, non-celibate
priest to be consecrated as bishop reverberated throughout
the worldwide Anglican Communion half a decade ago, so,
too, did the news of his civil union.
But
a blogger reading the headline in Religion & Ethics
that stated: “Gay bishop, partner plan civil union,” asked
an important question: “If he is a bishop why should he
have a civil union? Shouldn’t he have a church wedding?”
The
news of Lloyd and Ragsdale’s wedding will no doubt bring
up the question of biblical heresy among conservatives.
But
for those who will argue about the “authority of Scripture”
it doesn’t hold weight here because the Episcopal Church
has always been challenged on this issue.
For
example, in the 1970s, the argument for authority of Scripture
came up with the ordination of women – and so, too, did
the threat of a schism. But in 1989, the Church consecrated
its first female bishop – Barbara C. Harris. And conservatives
were not only theologically outraged, but also racially
challenged because Harris is African American.
And
in 2006, gasps of both exhilaration and exasperation reverberated
throughout the Anglican Communion when it was announced
that Katharine Jefferts Schori would be the Presiding Bishop
of the Episcopal Church USA.
All
this is no surprise, however, since the Episcopal Church
has a history of taking the moral high ground on social
justice issues.
On
the theological rift concerning American slavery, the Episcopal
Church rebuked the Bible’s literal interpretation, arguing
that slavery violated the spirit of the Bible.
Boston's
Old North Church, which played an active role in the American
Revolution, served as a beacon for Paul Revere’s “midnight
ride.”
The
Emmanuel Episcopal Church in Cumberland, Md., was a major
stop on the Underground Railroad.
I
remember the preacher at Robinson's consecration. He was
the Rt. Rev. Douglas E. Theuner who was succeeded by Robinson.
Theuner preached about the necessary shift that must take
place in the church in order for it to be inclusive of all
people, not just with LGBTQ people. He said:
When
we attempt to bring the margins into the center, we necessarily
push the center to the margins. If Canterbury or New York,
for instance, wishes to help Nigeria or West Indies move
toward the center, then for everyone to continue to occupy
the space available, Canterbury and New York must willing
move toward the margin. We who have been in the center
don't like moving to the margin, event to different places
on it, but we must do that if we're gong to affirm the
marginalized. That was the thrust of our Lord's ministry
. . . Welcome to the life where Jesus lived it . . . on
the margin!
For
me, the joy in this moment of knowing about the holy matrimony
of Lloyd and Ragsdale is that the Episcopal Church
crawls toward inclusiveness, albeit haltingly, and in spite
of opposition.
And
for those of us on the margins in our churches and faith
communities we need to see the principle of love in action.
And
the wedding of Lloyd and Ragsdale is one such example.
BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a
religion columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of the
African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion
and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific School of Religion. A native of Brooklyn, Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley
College and Union Theological Seminary at Columbia University,
and served as a pastor at an African-American church before
coming to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a
Ford Fellow. She was recently named to MSNBC’s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author
of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible
Prayers for Not’So’Everyday Moments. As an African-American feminist theologian, she speaks for
a sector of society that is frequently invisible. Her website is irenemonroe.com.
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