When preachers pontificate too much
from on High about the sins of homosexual sex, the cautionary
tale is to be careful of what you say, because your words invariable
will come back to bite you, as we have seen with fallen
evangelical star Pastor Ted Haggard.
The rantings against homosexuality by
Bishop T. D. Jakes, the internationally known African American evangelical
luminary, dubbed the
black Billy Graham, have come back to bite him in the form of his
oldest son’s recent arrest.
On January 3 Jermaine Jakes was arrested
in a sex sting for openly soliciting gay sex from an undercover
vice detective in a public park. The park is located only a
few blocks from his father’s church, The Potter’s House, a 30,000
member megachurch in Dallas, Texas.
The arrest warrant affidavit filed by Dallas
Police detectives on Jermaine Jakes stated the following:
“Suspect Jakes walked directly over to where Detective
X was, and stood next to Detective X with his penis exposed through
his unzipped pants...Suspect Jakes committed the offense of indecent
exposure by exposing his erect penis in a public place with his
intent to gratify or arouse the sexual desire of himself. Suspect
Jakes was reckless about whether another was present who would
be offended or alarmed by his actions.”
While Bishop Jakes is tight-lipped on the
topic of his son’s homosexuality, the African American
LGBTQ community isn’t. As a matter of fact, the
son’s arrest has the African American LGBTQ community abuzz about
Bishop Jake’s sexuality.
In September 2005 activists Keith Boykin and Jasmyne
Cannick kicked off a five-part series, “Outing Black Pastors,” on
their respective websites querying publicly whether prominent pastors
in the black community, like Bishops T.D. Jakes and Eddie Long,
who constantly rail against LGBTQ people, were actually
struggling with their own sexual orientation.
But black ministers living on the down low (DL)
is not a new phenomenon in the African-American community. Naming
it publicly, however, is.
J.L. King who became the
country's poster boy by exposing the behavior in his best-seller, On
The Down Low: A Journey into the Lives of "Straight" Black
Men Who Sleep with Men stated, not surprisingly, that many of his partners
were churchmen. "There are gospel conventions throughout the
nation for churches. There is one for ushers, Sunday school departments,
music departments and ministers . . . These events allow men to
meet men and to have sex while away from their hometowns. Many midnight
concerts turn into affairs where brothers are cruising each other.
I've been there, seen it and done it," King states in his book.
Many African-American men on the DL say there are
two salient features that contribute to this subculture -- white
gay culture and the Black Church. DL men deliberately segregate
themselves from both black and white gay cultures as an alternative
black masculinity that only wants to have sex and socialize with
other black men. But class is a factor here, too. While many gay
African-American men have the economic mobility to reside outside
of the black community and are likely to intermingle with the dominant
gay culture, most DL men don't.
"They've created a
community of their own, a cultural party where whites aren't invited.
Labeling yourself as DL is a way to disassociate from everything
white and upper class. . . And that is a way for DL men to assert
some power," George Ayala, director of education for AIDS Project
Los Angeles, told the Times in the 2003 article.
But the Black Church's conservative gender roles
and anti-gay theology also contribute to this subculture. Bishop
T. D defines homosexuality in men as a spiritual
“brokenness, “due to long-term imprisonment, absentee fathers, having
been sexually abused or not knowing how to have healthy social relationships
with men.
Poster boy for African-American ex-gay ministries,
gospel mega-star Pastor Donnie McClurkin feels similarly to
Jake stating he was once sexually abused by an uncle that
brought about his proclivity to same-sex attraction. McClurkin
said:
"There's a group that says, 'God made us this
way,' but then there's another group that knows God didn't make
them that way. Love is pulling you one way and lust is pulling
you another, and your relationship with Jesus is tearing you.”
Bishop T. D. Jakes told the Dallas Voice he would
never hire a sexually active gay person to his ministry, but
that’s hard to believe. Why? Because there are two types
of gay masculinities in the Black church. One expresses itself
fairly openly in the choir with the choirmaster not surprisingly
gay. Bishop Jakes is a former choirmaster.
The other conceals itself within a homosocial
community of DL male clerics that finds camaraderie at black pastors
conferences or at all-male conferences like T.D. Jakes’s upcoming
March 6-8 "Manifest".
These clerics intentionally exploit their ecclesiastical authority by
using anti-gay rhetoric and the bible as their cover-up.
"To date, I have not seen scriptural authority that
allows me to stand on behalf of God and say I now pronounce you
husband and husband, and wife and wife. This is an issue the government is undecided about.
The Bible is not," Bishop Jakes told USA Today.
A number of gay African American brothers have said
that T.D. Jakes is a little “swishy and sweet” as a way of indicating
there is something suspicious about his sexuality. But Jermaine
Jakes is unapologetically and unabashedly gay. Some in
the African American community say Jakes is intentionally flamboyant and
sexually reckless to publicly deride and embarrass his
homophobic dad.
But there are others in the community who say Jermaine
is just like his dad, but he is not hiding behind a stained-glass
closet.
BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is
a religion columnist, theologian, and public speaker. A native of
Brooklyn, Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley College and Union
Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served as a pastor
at an African-American church before coming to Harvard Divinity
School for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow. Reverend Monroe is the
author of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations
on Bible Prayers for Not-So-Everyday Moments
. As an African American feminist theologian, she speaks for
a sector of society that is frequently invisible. Her website is
irenemonroe.com.
Click here
to contact the Rev. Monroe. |