On
this Mother’s Day, I will miss the physical presence of my mother.
One of the revelations of which I am now firmly aware, is that
although I physically look like may father, the major attributes
of my personality, disposition, and attitude reflect the profound
personality of my mother, Anna Belle. Therefore, on this Mother’s
Day, I want to pay tribute to my own mother who reflects the
story of many great Black Mothers worldwide. This is my tribute,
remembering the life of Anna Belle Gravenberg Worrill
Anna
Belle Gravenberg Worrill was born May 9, 1919 to August and
Lilly Gravenberg in Jeanerette, Louisiana. Anna Belle, who had
eight brothers and one sister, was affectionately called “Annie”
by close family members.
In
1920, a pneumonia epidemic took the lives of over two hundred
people in Jeanerette. Her parents were among the casualties
leaving Anna Belle, at the tender age of seven months, and her
siblings orphaned. For a brief time, Anna Belle and her older
sister Minola lived at a Catholic Convent. During their stay
in the convent, Minola, who was like a mother to Annie, greatly
impressed the nuns with her devotion to her younger sister.
In
the early 1920s, Anna Belle, Minola, and their older brother,
Conrad, moved to New Orleans, Louisiana to live with their Aunt
Maggie Matthews. During the early 1930s they relocated to Los
Angeles, California to reside with their brother Conrad and
his wife. In Los Angeles, Anna Belle attended public school.
She later settled with Lillian Piersaul and her husband in Pasadena,
California where she attended Washington Junior High School
and Pasadena High School.
During
this period, Anna Belle’s interests in the arts and music became
apparent. She began to study ballet and to receive vocal training.
Her participation in the choir at the First A.M.E. Church in
Pasadena showcased her gift as a vocalist, and she was often
selected to solo. At this time she met Walter Worrill, another
member of the church choir. They courted and married in September
1940. Anna Belle attended Pasadena Junior College where she
continued to receive vocal training and study music. She was
often requested to sing at major events in the Los Angeles County
area at churches, weddings, and funerals.
Anna
Belle and Walter’s first child, born on August 15, 1941, was
a son they named Conrad Walter Worrill (Conrad in honor of her
older brother and Walter for his father). Her passion for working
with children led her to secure a teaching position at the Pacific
Oaks Nursery School in Pasadena where she later enrolled Conrad.
Anna
Belle was honored to be selected to sing at the wedding of baseball
legend, Jackie Robinson in 1946. In the late 1940s, Annie became
a member of the renowned Pasadena Civic Chorus that presented
major concerts throughout the city and surrounding area. Her
love for children, music, and the arts reflected her passion
for life and made a great impression on those with whom she
came into contact.
During
the 1940s, Anna Belle assisted her husband Walter with his work
in the YMCA Movement. In 1950, the YMCA transferred Walter to
Chicago, Illinois. Big city life was challenging for the Worrill
family. Upon their arrival in Chicago, the couple resided at
the YMCA Hotel located at 826 South Wabash. The challenges for
housing in Chicago at that time were quite severe. Fortunately,
on their train trip from California to Chicago they befriended
a waiter, Mr. Anthony, who owned a building at 5640 South Maryland.
He had a vacancy on the second floor and allowed them to lease
the apartment.
On
April 29, 1951 a second son, Oscar William Worrill, named in
honor of his grandfather, was born to Anna Belle and Walter.
Anna Belle quickly became involved in the choir at St. Mark’s
Methodist Church. She was most influential in organizing the
Handel’s Messiah concert, which became an annual Christmas season
event and is still an annual event at St. Mark’s. She was a
member of the Chicago Music Association and protégé to the late
Theodore Charles Stone. Anna Belle was the family representative
to welcome the neighbors, who included the popular disc jockey,
Al Benson; the distinguished sociologist and anthropologist,
St. Clair Drake; the Minor family who lived across the street;
and many others living in the west Hyde Park community. Her
dynamic personality and spiritual gift enabled her to easily
interact with all people.
She
participated in the PTA at Ray, Neil, Dixon, Hyde Park High,
and Calumet High Schools where her sons Conrad and Oscar attended.
As a
result of her volunteerism, she was made a lifetime member of
the National PTA. She was an aggressive parent advocate, not
only for her sons but for all children. She tirelessly worked
to ensure that they received everything to which they were entitled.
Anna Belle eventually took a job as an administrative clerk
at the University of Chicago where she worked in the Bursar’s
Office for more than fifteen years. She became known for helping
students negotiate their financial aid payments to the university,
and she voluntarily assisted many students to make sure that
their financial aid needs were met.
In
1957, the Worrill family purchased a home at 8450 South Prairie
in Chicago’s Chatham neighborhood. There the family experienced
“white flight” first hand. The day they moved into their new
home several white families were moving out.
Anna
Belle became well known for her neighborliness and concern for
members of the community. When Ernest “Stu” Collins, an African
American entrepreneur, opened a supermarket at 79th and Calumet,
she became the leading advocate for blacks to shop with blacks,
especially at Stu Collins’ Certified. For years, Anna Belle
would walk from her home at 84th and Prairie to 79th and Calumet
and back with groceries purchased from the black-owned grocery.
She was very proud of her support for black owned businesses
and instilled those values in her children.
In
1970, Walter took a new position with the YMCA. Anna Belle and
Walter moved from Chicago to Pennlyn, Pennsylvania. It was during
this period that Anna Belle returned to her Catholic faith and
attended a local Catholic church in Pennlyn on a regular basis.
After Walter and Anna Belle divorced in the late 1970s, Anna
Belle remained in Pennlyn and secured a position working in
a nursing home. In 1989, her son, Oscar assisted her in moving
back to Chicago so she could be close to her sons, other family
members, and friends. With the support of her sons, Oscar and
Conrad, Anna Belle lived a full life in Chicago.
Anna
Belle loved her family: her sister, brothers, sons, nieces,
nephews, in-laws, grand and great grandchildren. She often spent
quality time with them, especially her grandchildren. In the
final year of her life, Anna Belle lived in the Renaissance
Senior Citizen Residence in the South Shore neighborhood. Though
her eyesight began to fail, she was the life of the party among
the elders in her new home. And all of the staff loved Anna
Belle as well.
Anna
Belle was blessed in the last months of her life to receive
a visit from her older sister, Minola. Minola, who does not
fly, her daughter Gail, and her goddaughter Tracey drove across
country from Los Angeles to Chicago in a Winnebago motor home
so she could spend time with her baby sister. Annie and Minola
were able to visit with their brother Columbus Gravenberg, who
lived in the western suburbs of Chicago. This was a well-timed
reunion for shortly after their visit Columbus made his transition.
After
a brief illness, Anna Belle was hospitalized at South Shore
Hospital on Wednesday evening, December 5, 2007. She made her
transition in the hospital on Saturday, December 8, 2007. Clearly,
Anna Belle Gravenberg Worrill lived a full and productive life
that focused on her love and support of her family, friends,
and community.
Anna
Belle left to cherish her life and legacy her sister, Minola;
sons, Conrad (Talibah) and Oscar (Denise); former husband, Walter
Worrill; grandchildren, Michelle, Femi, Sobenna, Kimberly Aisha,
and Gloria Ann; eight great grandchildren, numerous in-laws,
nieces, nephews, cousins, and many friends. The Ancestral Realm
is fortified with the spirit of Anna Belle Gravenberg Worrill.
Those of us she left behind will miss her on this Mother’s Day.
But we are stronger for having been touched by her and we too
are fortified by her spirit. Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!
BlackCommentator.com
Columnist, Conrad W. Worrill, PhD, is the National Chairman
of the National Black United Front (NBUF). Click
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