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K. Danielle Edwards

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BlackCommentator.com Columnist K. Danielle Edwards - a Black full-time working mother and wife, with a penchant for prose, a heart for poetry, a love of books and culture, a liking of fashion and style, a knack for news and an obsession with facts - beating the odds, defying the statistics. Sister Edwards is a Nashville-based writer, poet and communications professional, seeking to make the world a better place, one decision and one action at a time. To her, parenting is a protest against the odds, and marriage is a living mantra for forward movement. Her work has appeared in BLACK MARRIED MOMMA, ParentingExpress, Magazine, The Black World Today, Africana.com, The Tennessean and other publications. She is the author of Stacey Jones: Memoirs of Girl & Woman, Body & Spirit, Life & Death (2005) and is the founder and creative director of The Pen: An Exercise in the Cathartic Potential of the Creative Act, a nonprofit creative writing project designed for incarcerated and disadvantaged populations. Click here to contact Ms. Edwards

34 pieces

Commentary

Too Many Black Kids Can’t Swim. Can Yours? – Black Married Momma The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

This morning, as I got ready for work and had the local news humming in the background as I usually do, I heard a report about drowning deaths in our city, with a national spin attached. According to the representative speaking on behalf of a local YMCA location, most parents whose children drown had no…

This morning, as I got ready for work and had the local news humming in the background as I usually do, I heard a report about…

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Promoting a Positive Body Image – Black Married Momma, The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

Becoming a mother in and of itself was not enough for me to realize how important it was to love myself ” as my self. Instead, that epiphany didn’t come to be until I realized that I would be parenting children who happened to be daughters and reflected upon my own development as such. As…

Becoming a mother in and of itself was not enough for me to realize how important it was to love myself " as my self. Instead,…

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The Calm After the Storm – Black Married Momma – The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

I happen to live in Middle Tennessee, where we’re dealing with the greatest natural disaster to hit the area since records have been kept. Some are estimating that the torrential rains we had over the weekend resulted in flooding that this area might not have seen for 500 or 1,000 years. Comparatively, we have fared…

I happen to live in Middle Tennessee, where we’re dealing with the greatest natural disaster to hit the area since records have been kept. Some are…

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Many of Us Were Molested Like Monique – Black Married Momma – The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

April 19, 2010, I was able to catch most of The Oprah Show, on which the mother, father and brother of Oscar-winning actress, comedienne and talk show host Monique appeared. They sat down to peel back the layers of the sexual abuse and molestation she, on more than one occasion (on the Oprah Show, in…

April 19, 2010, I was able to catch most of The Oprah Show, on which the mother, father and brother of Oscar-winning actress, comedienne and talk…

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Black Women, Too Hard? – Black Married Momma: – The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

If you’re a black woman, those odds are you’ve heard some incarnation before of this statement: “Black women are too hard, too tough, too difficult.” It may have been part of the lead-in to the punch line of a joke. It might have been words shouted out in anger with an ex. It could have…

If you’re a black woman, those odds are you’ve heard some incarnation before of this statement: “Black women are too hard, too tough, too difficult.” It…

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Cover Story

Black Parenting = Raised Stakes? – Black Married Momma, The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

Occasionally, something happens to make me jerk my neck around, turn to my husband, and say, “Their parents should have taught them better than that.” It’s not because the acts are always particularly egregious or out of step for adolescents testing the limitations of invincibility and coming of age. Instead, it’s because as a black…

Occasionally, something happens to make me jerk my neck around, turn to my husband, and say, “Their parents should have taught them better than that.” It’s…

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Women in Relationships More Apt to Develop Love Handles – Black Married Momma

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

A new study says that women who live with a mate – even if they don’t have a child, but especially if they do – are more likely than their single, solo habitating and childless peers to pack on the pounds. Those of us who have been bitten by the love bug knows how it…

A new study says that women who live with a mate - even if they don't have a child, but especially if they do - are…

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Most Black Married Mommas Could Have Been Statistics

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

As a Black Married Momma, I represent the Anti-Statistic these days. Wanna see how? Ten years ago, nearly 70 percent of African-American children were born to unmarried black women. We’re now on the precipice of 2010, and the percentage is likely higher today; in fact, some estimate it now trends closer to 80 percent. Nearly…

As a Black Married Momma, I represent the Anti-Statistic these days. Wanna see how? Ten years ago, nearly 70 percent of African-American children were born to…

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When the Brothers Blast You and the… – Black Married Momma The Anti-Statistic

By K. Danielle Edwards Columnist

As much as I am proud and thankful to be married to a beautiful black man, I cannot help but look at many of today’s headlines on the state of black marriage and relationships with a bit of déjà vu. In this recent Washington Post story, “Wedded to the Idea of Promoting Black Marriages,” we…

As much as I am proud and thankful to be married to a beautiful black man, I cannot help but look at many of today’s headlines…

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