The
professional sports world has been waiting for a Jason Collins moment -
a gay athlete currently playing in a major league to come out
publicly. What you may not know is that the subtext is that it
was hoped the moment would star an African American male.
The African American community, let alone the sports world, desperately needed an openly gay current male professional player.
Collins, who deliberately wore the jersey number, "98," to honor slain
gay student Matthew Shepard during the 2012 - 13 NBA season, is a 7' 0"
center for the Washington Wizards, a former Boston Celtic, and is also
African American. Closeted for all of his professional playing life,
until now, Collins told "Sports Illustrated," why he finally came out.
"I realized I needed to go public when Joe Kennedy, my old roommate at
Stanford and now a Massachusetts congressman, told me he had just
marched in Boston's 2012 Gay Pride Parade. I'm seldom jealous of
others, but hearing what Joe had done filled me with envy....I wanted
to do the right thing and not hide anymore."
LGBTQ athletes must constantly monitor how they are being perceived by
teammates, coaches, endorsers and the media in order to avoid
suspicion. They are expected to maintain a public silence and decorum
so that their identity does not tarnish the rest of the team.
In what will now hopefully become the last closet where LGBTQ hide
their sexual orientation, thanks to Collins, the sports world's
hyper-masculine and testosterone-driven milieu might actually begin to
loosen its homophobic hold, especially among black athletes.
Doc Rivers, coach of the Boston Celtics and African American, is revered among black athletes.
Having coached Collins for 32 games before Collins was traded to the
Washington Wizard, Doc Rivers remarks help spread a message of
acceptance.
"I'm really proud of Jason. He still can play. He'll be active in our
league, I hope, and we can get by this - get past this. I think it
would be terrific for the league. More than anything, it would just be
terrific for mankind, my gosh."
In terms of when and how you come out personally, timing is everything. So, too, in coming out professionally.
The statement, “I’m a 34-year-old NBA center. I’m black. And I’m gay” by Collins in the May 6 issue of Sports Illustrated
is as momentous as renown comedienne Ellen DeGeneres' quote "Yep, I’m
Gay" appeared on the cover of the April 14, 1997 issue of "Time
Magazine."
Although the time span between the two statements is 16 years, and many
more advances and civil rights have been afforded to us lesbian, gay,
bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) Americans, we know we're still
a nation grappling with the issue.
While both Collins and DeGeneres give a public face and personal
testimonies of their struggle of being closeted about their sexual
orientation, their messages reach and resonate within only certain
pockets of the American population and not others. And within those
pockets of the American populace, the reprisal and applause they also
receive for coming out still fracture along several fault lines, with
professional sports being one of them.
When Ellen so boldly came out in 1997 she received a torrent of praises
from the LGBTQ community and our allies. But "her career puttered and
stalled out for the three years following her coming out," and her
impact did little for both the world of sports and for many straight
and LGBTQ in the African American community in understanding the
deleterious effects of homophobia. (It was still being argued, as now,
in many African American communities that homosexuality is a "white
disease" and not a civil right.)
In the sports world most women athletes, even today, are assumed to
either be lesbians and/ or unfeminine. For example, in many African
American communities Olympic basketball player Lisa Leslie was
perceived to be a “girly-girly;” therefore, not a lesbian, but
certainly a weak and non-aggressive player. Tennis phenoms, the William
Sisters, are aggressive players but too muscular, especially Serena, to
be seen as feminine.
LBT women in professional sports have come out of the closet while
playing, at least, two decades before the "Jason Collins watershed
moment."
While race plays a factor in the African American community coming to
grips with its homophobia, especially in the world of sports, so, too,
does gender.
Case in point: Just last month, Brittney Griner, also an African
American like Collins, is a 6-foot-8, three-time All-America center and
was the number one pick in the WNBA draft announced she was a lesbian.
It wasn’t considered a big news story.
In 1997, a pregnant Sheryl Swoopes - three-time Olympic gold medalist
and three-time MVP of the Women's National Basketball Association
(WNBA) - promoting a heterosexual face for the WNBA was the cover-girl
for the premiere issue of "Sports Illustrated Women." At the time
Swoopes was married to her male high school sweetheart. That was
considered a big news story. But so too in 2005, when Swoopes came out
as a lesbian, becoming the second in the WNBA, and endorsed the lesbian
travel company "Olivia." She was at the time partnered with Alisa
Scott, an assistant coach for the Houston Comets that Sheryl played for
from 1997- -2007. And in 2011, it was another big news story because
she was with a male.
To incurable homophobes, especially of the fundamentalist Christian
variety, who pedal their "nurture vs. nature" rhetoric that
homosexuality is curable with reparative therapies, they saw Swoopes as
the prodigal daughter who had finally found her way home to Jesus.
Many of my heterosexual African American brothers, Chris Unclesho, the
man Swoopes was then engaged to marry, was the MAN! A bona fide "dyke
whisperer" who had turned Swoopes out to the sexual joys of what it is
to be with a man.
But long before Swoopes, Griner and Collins, both tennis greats Billie Jean King and Martina Navratilova came out in 1981.
Martina was publicly taunted for not only being a lesbian but for also
not bringing femininity and beauty to her game. Her muscular physique
and supposedly masculine appearance killed not only sponsor
endorsements but also attempted to kill her spirit in playing the game.
With the sports world celebrating Collins news, Navratilova has joined in voicing her joy in an op-ed she wrote for SI.com.
"Now that Jason Collins has come out, he is the proverbial
game-changer. One of the last bastions of homophobia has been
challenged. How many LGBT kids, once closeted, are now more likely to
pursue a team sport and won't be scared away by a straight culture?
Collins has led the way to freedom. Yes, freedom - because that
closet is completely and utterly suffocating. It's only when you come
out that you can breathe properly."
Navratilova is correct in stating that Collins is a "game-changer,"
because he stands on all the LGBTQ shoulders in sports before him.
Truth be told, Collins is not the first professional gay or black
athlete to come out. He’s not even the first professional athlete to
come out while playing.
But in a sports world that has become overwhelmingly shaped by African
American male players and masculinity, thr Collins coming out
celebration has everything to do with timing, gender, race and many
more straight brothers embracing their gay brethren.
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