As
a 65 year old African American male, I identify with Trayvon
Martin, the 17 year old youth that was killed in Sanford,
Florida, on February 26. Despite the
age difference, I visualize myself in his shoes, walking
down the dark street near a gated community, talking to
a girlfriend on the phone, and discovering that I am being
followed by a man in a truck who turns out to be a person
like George Zimmerman. Who else, among us, can truly identify
with this young man? President Obama, who only had daughters
as I did, identifies with Trayvon a bit more distantly:
as if Trayvon were his son. I guess that as an American
child in Indonesia,
Obama safely and successfully negotiated this genre of cultural
boundaries, but he realizes and identifies with the fact
that there are more lethal dangers with such crossings for
young black males living in the US. The extent of one’s identification
– which is somewhat like the degree that one empathizes
with something – ranges from no identification at all to
that degree of identification that another 17 year old African
American male in Florida might bring to the case.
Out
of this sense of empathy or identity, interlaced with the
emotions of fear, disgust, frustration, and urgency, some
people have been moved to take action as this cause is reverberating
through the public media. Political and governmental procedure
is such that there is little of great impact that can be
done to help bring justice to Trayvon’s specific case. The
Police Chief of Sanford
has suspended himself after a “no confidence” vote of the
Sanford City Council; the Florida State Attorney General
is investigating; and the Federal Justice Department is
investigating as to whether there has been a Civil Rights
violation.
The
outpouring of testimony and heated demonstrations across
the country will have little effect at this point on the
availability of justice for Trayvon and his family. However,
this degree of pre-“occupation” of the public “spaces,”
this amount of moral recoil, this amount of
disturbance in our emotional “sea” deserves a broad correction
that goes beyond Sanford and Florida.
The phenomena of a huge swath of the nation empathizing
with Trayvon means that something similar is going on and
has been going on for a long time everywhere. This engagement
with Trayvon’s case will have its greatest impact to the
degree that we trace that emotional knot (of fear, disgust,
frustration, and urgency) that arose because of the circumstances
of Trayvon’s killing to those similar circumstances in our
own lives and in our own community - the existence of which
has “allowed” us to empathize with Trayvon in the first
place. If we then take that knowing and turn it in to action,
that is grace, that is co-creation most powerfully.
The
crosscutting forces of social systems, economic systems,
political systems, and the criminal justice system, either
advantages us or targets us for certain “treatment.” First,
stipulating that systems are existentially collections of
people, what we identify with and how we are identified,
are the arbiters of every systemic response. Blind, ignorant,
and self deceiving people may think that if you simply behave
“right” and “work hard,” you have nothing to fear. These
non-empathetic people are wrong. A corollary of that thinking
is that true Floridians or true “Americans”
act in a particular way and, when they do, they are “blessed”
“Americans.” These blind believers are wrong.
Trayvon’s
case and many, many, many others put the lie to these deceptions.
Other deceivers believe that if we would only stop talking
about racial and other differences, in an effort to
reach a color-blind society, the result would be the disappearance
of individual and systemic biases. This is a self delusion;
no human behavioral phenomenon has ever disappeared when
we stopped talking about it. Frightfully, this delusion
is also dangerous. In this conception, the incidence of
violations will be hidden and the norm becomes a bland (white)
stance that is very boring and unattractive; it is absolutely
unrealistic and will not happen and should not be attempted.
So
the questions remain: where are we headed and what effective
action can a person take no matter one’s gender or skin
color, or where in the country we are? I think the first
step is to accept the truth that the elements
for similar injustice exist in every community in the country
to some degree. Step two is to accept that we all
– to some degree or other – receive advantages from the
biases of our social, economic, political, and criminal
justice systems; and we all – to some degree
or other – are targets of these systems and the individuals
that exercise these systems. Clearly exercising the system’s
logic does not necessarily mean that one is officially an
agent of the system, a la Mr. George Zimmerman.
However, we are all both positively and negatively impacted
at some time, in some way. At this moment, there is no need
to have a competition on the rankings of oppressive practices
or to acknowledge with whose oppression we identify
the most. The social psychological dynamics are the same
even if the historical evolution of the syndromes is different.
We can all only move from our unique
collection of identities – howsoever those identities harmonize
or not. It is that identity harmonizing pattern that is
unique to humans and that displays integrity and rationality.
Who
are you? Take action in your community by exposing injustices
at their roots, by facilitating the opportunities for empathy
for all humans, and by correcting the insensitive, unjust
laws and processes that are taking place just around the
corner. The salient injustices associated with the Trayvon
Martin case are race and the crookedness of the criminal
justice system but injustices of class, gender, ability,
age, academic status, richness or poverty, sexual identity,
nationality, and language-facility work in similar ways.
Let’s break down those dynamics for each situation and that
will have an impact on eliminating those dynamics everywhere.
An injustice anywhere opens the doors for injustice everywhere.
Social
science tells us that we are a multiplicity of identities.
Instead of seeing ourselves as a single personality, we
all consist of multiple characters or micro-personalities,
each one with its own viewpoint, emotions and ambitions.
The mother who feeds breakfast to her children, for example,
has quite different concerns and opinions from the woman
taking part in a boardroom discussion two hours later, and
from the woman she will be with her husband that night.
Yet all three may share the same body, and none is any more
“authentic” than another. I am of African, Native American,
and European ancestry. I used to speak a little German as
well as “American” English. I am male, a father, a husband,
a politician, an administrator, a former football player,
a teacher, and a community organizer. The most important
step that we can take is to realize that other
human beings – all other human beings – are also a multiplicity
of identities and we can always be empathetic with all of
them to some degree. Remember that empathy
is not the same thing as sympathy; many people can have
more sympathy for a dog or a seal pup than they have for
other humans. Realize that we can – by many
degrees – have our best empathy with another human being
and within the human family.
In
today’s world, our ability to switch from one micro-personality
to another, according to what is demanded of us, is a huge
strength. It is a strength provided that one’s various micro-personalities
work together in harmony rather than against each other
or through confusion. The grounding of personality is in
beliefs, values, and our artistry of presence. If your bed
rock beliefs and values are split or are in conflict, no
artistry can for long present a display that has integrity
or rationality. Too much identification with imperfect systems
– like the rapacious Global Capitalist economic system,
like the racist Criminal Justice system, like the oligarchic
political system, etc. – leads to uncorrected injustices,
insanity, self blindness, and self deception.
Rather,
it is both personal harmony and community
harmony that are all of our goals.
I am Tryvon Martin; I affirm his life and rededicate mine
to bring about harmony in my community.
BlackCommentator.com
Guest Commentator, Wilson Riles, is a
former Oakland, CA City Council Member. Click here
to contact Mr. Riles.
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