Having
voice in the Black Community is still an arduous struggle
for its lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBTQ) community.
As
we cross over into 2012, one of our biggest accomplishments
in 2011 has been the various ways in which LGBTQ of African
descent have employed different public venues to be heard.
And these venues will be used as instruments of change in
our future struggle.
The Court
Bishop Eddie Long, one
of the Black Church’s prominent pastors of “prosperity
gospel” and bling-bling theology in the Southeast, is flashing
neither his gold nor silver these days. The embattled pastor
had hoped that settling a sex scandal lawsuit for an undisclosed
amount against allegations that he used influence, trips,
gifts, and jobs to coerce young males into sexual relations
would close the lid on the matter. But
the mess wouldn’t subside and trouble kept coming: he’s
now temporarily stepped down from his bully pulpit.
Long has not created
the homophobic climate in the Black Church, but
he has certainly contributed to it. With a membership of
over 25,000, Long’s church is the largest African American
megachurch in the Southeast. And as the largest it can begin,
with his sex scandal, to effect change by embracing a liberating,
healthy, and holistic understanding of human sexuality.
And in so doing, Long would be creating a model of pastoral
care not only for heterosexuals or homosexuals, but most
importantly, for himself.
The Stage
While most Harlem churches
won’t touch LGBTQ issues, various gay-friendly arts venues
in Harlem will.
On
April 26, 2011, the Harlem Stage premiered the new documentary
short film, “Marriage Equality: Byron Rushing and the Fight
for Fairness,” allowing the largest public dialogue on same-sex
marriage by LGBTQ people of color in the country. New
York native and award-winning African American gay filmmaker,
Thomas Allen Harris, directed the film, sponsored by the
Human Rights Campaign.
Harris tackles the continued
hot-button issue in both the African American and LGBTQ
communities. Civil rights: black vs. gay. Harris dismantles
the false dichotomy of this ongoing debate by connecting
the Black Civil Rights Movement of 1960s with the same-sex
marriage equality movement of today. And he does it by focusing
on African American Democratic Massachusetts State Rep.
Byron Rushing, a veteran of the Civil Rights Movement who,
in the past decade, took the campaign for same-sex marriage
into African-American communities here in Massachusetts.
With over 200 LGBTQ
people of color and allies in attendance at the Harlem Stage,
renown gay African American Washington Post editorial
writer, Jonathan Capehart, moderated the forum on same-sex
marriage with a panel that included entrepreneur and activist,
Russell Simmons; Cathy Marino-Thomas, board president of
Marriage Equality New York; Human Rights Campaign board
of directors member, David Wilson; myself; and a host of
rights advocates, political activists, and religious leaders.
Black Colleges
Historically Black
Colleges and Universities (HBCU),
as a whole, have been slow to take on the public challenge
on LGBTQ issues for a few reasons: Some schools were founded
with religious affiliation, and Black colleges are no different
from African American communities in general. But during
“Coming Out Month”, the Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s
HBCU Program hit campuses again. In an effort to educate
and organize students, faculty and administrators in advocating
for LGBTQ equality and social justice specific to each institution’s
needs, HRC annually conducts the black LGBTQ Student Leadership
Summit to help college age students deal with strong family
foundations that emphasize heterosexuality and strong conservative
religious ties within the Black Church. “It takes a lot
of courage to stand up on an HBCU campus and be proud of
who you are,” said HRC Associate Director of Diversity,
Donna Payne. “That is why we support training this generation
to be effective leaders that will change the course of what
it means to be African American and LGBT.
Memoir
CNN’s Don Lemon penned
a memoir titled Transparent
that will come out in September. In writing his book, Lemon
said “the decision to come out happened organically.” In
this era of acceptance of LGBTQ people in news broadcasting
like Lemon’s colleague, Anderson Cooper, ABC’s Good Morning
America weather anchor, Sam Champion, MSNBC’s Rachel Maddow
and her colleague, Thomas Roberts, to name a few, one would
wonder about the source of the media brouhaha with Lemon’s
disclosure, especially since his sexual orientation was
not secret at work.
“It’s quite different
for an African-American male,” Lemon told Joy Behar on her
HLN show. “It’s about the worst thing you can be in black
culture. You’re taught you have to be a man; you have to
be masculine. In the black community they think you can
pray the gay away.”
And Lemon is right.
With homophobia running as rampant in historically black
colleges and universities as it is in black communities,
there are no safe places for GBTQ brothers of African descent
to safely acknowledge their sexuality or to openly engage
the subject of black GBTQ sexualities.
Lemon resides in Atlanta.
It’s the new black Mecca
and the new “Black Hollywood” that it’s fondly called “Hot-lanta.”
And it’s also dubbed the “down low” capital. The Black LGBTQ
community applauded Lemon for coming out.
Public Recant
Tim Hardaway, a retired
NBA All-Star player, in 2011 stepped forward with a change
of words.
“It’s not right to not
let the gays and lesbians have equal rights here,” Hardaway
told the crowd at a press conference organized by the “No
Recall” group, an El Paso group opposing a recall of El
Paso Mayor John Cook and two city representatives for their
support to re-establish domestic partner benefits for same-sex
and unmarried partners of city employees.
Hardaway, however, is
the last person one would expect to speak out on behalf
of a LGBTQ social justice issue.
In a 2007 interview
on Miami’s sports
radio station, “790 The Ticket,” Hardaway was asked how
he would interact with a gay teammate. The topic came up
because of fellow former NBAer John Amaechi’s announcement,
in his book Man
in the Middle, that he is gay.
“You know, I hate gay
people, so I let it be known. I don’t like gay people and
I don’t like to be around gay people,” Hardaway said. “I’m
homophobic. I don’t like it. It shouldn’t be in the world
or in the United States.”
A change of words helps
bring a change of heart.
Film
Positive Black LGBTQs
on the silver screen is an anomaly.
This paucity of black
LGBTQ images not only maintains the lie that we don’t exist,
but it has also allowed the African American community to
retreat into a closet producing black homophobic flicks.
But the tide is turning.
A new film is soon to
come out by writer-director, Dee Rees, titled “Pariah, ’’
a semi-autobiographical drama which generated a lot of buzz
at the 2011 Sundance Film Festival. It’s both a coming-of-age
and coming-out film about a 17-year-old black lesbian in
Brooklyn falling in love and embracing
one’s identity.
BlackCommentator.com
Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a religion
columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of
the African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and
Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific
School of Religion.
A native of Brooklyn,
Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley College and Union
Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served
as a pastor at an African-American church before coming
to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow.
She was recently named to MSNBC’s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author
of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible Prayers for Not’So’Everyday Moments.
As an African-American feminist theologian, she speaks for
a sector of society that is frequently invisible. Her website
is irenemonroe.com.
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