| In the 
                      African American community, we desperately need public role 
                      models denouncing anti-homophobic bullying, vitriol, and 
                      discrimination.  Since 
                      too few role models come from the Black Church, many of us lesbian, gay, bisexual, 
                      transgender and queer (LGBTQ) brothers and sisters of African 
                      descent look to black role models, especially males, in 
                      the areas of entertainment and sports. But sadly, that list 
                      too is short. Tim Hardaway, a retired 
                      NBA All-Star player has recently stepped forward. �It�s not right to not 
                      let the gays and lesbians have equal rights here,� Hardaway 
                      told the crowd at a press conference organized by the �No 
                      Recall� group, an El Paso group opposing a recall of El 
                      Paso Mayor John Cook and two city representatives for their 
                      support to re-establish domestic partner benefits for gay 
                      and unmarried partners of city employees. Hardaway, however, is 
                      the last person one would expect to speak out on behalf 
                      of a LGBTQ social justice issue. In a 2007 interview 
                      on Miami�s sports 
                      radio station, �790 The Ticket,� Hardaway was asked how 
                      he would interact with a gay teammate. The topic came up 
                      because of fellow former NBAer John Amaechi�s announcement, 
                      in his book, Man 
                      in the Middle, that he is gay. �You know, I hate gay 
                      people, so I let it be known. I don�t like gay people and 
                      I don�t like to be around gay people,� Hardaway said. �I�m 
                      homophobic. I don�t like it. It shouldn�t be in the world 
                      or in the United States.� His vitriol, sadly, 
                      hurt more than just his post-career endorsements. It hurt 
                      the hundreds of young LGBTQ sports enthusiasts and athletes 
                      that revered him. For many of us in the 
                      African-American LGBTQ community, however, we were saddened 
                      by Hardaway�s remarks, but certainly not surprised.  The 
                      former CEO of the National Black Justice Coalition, H. Alexander 
                      Robinson, commented on Hardaway�s vitriol stating, �His 
                      callous disregard for the dignity of the lives of gay Americans 
                      brings dishonor to himself and the many thousands who look 
                      upon him as a role model for young black men and women, 
                      many of whom are undoubtedly gay or lesbian.� I do believe, with the 
                      right intervention and rehabilitation that vile-spewing 
                      homophobes can change. But when their crossover appeal and 
                      multi-million careers can or comes to an abrupt halt, their 
                      mea culpas appear disingenuous, and their zealous LGBTQ 
                      advocacy appears suspect. For example, Tracy Morgan, 
                      comedian and actor on NBC�s �30 Rock,� is a recent example 
                      of the malady. During a standup performance in June at the 
                      Ryman Auditorium in Nashville, 
                      Tennessee, Morgan�s �intended� jokes 
                      about LGBTQ people were instead insulting jabs. My son [had] 
                      �better talk to me like a man and not in a gay voice or 
                      I�ll pull out a knife and stab that little n-gger to death,� 
                      Morgan told his audience. Like Hardaway, Morgan 
                      has publicly expressed his mea culpas. Morgan�s was to the 
                      Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), the 
                      nation�s LGBTQ media advocacy and anti-defamation organization 
                      - as part and parcel of his forgiveness tour - speaking 
                      out in support of LGBTQ equality. Back in the day, racism 
                      was addressed through sports, as when Jackie Robinson became 
                      the first black Major League Baseball player in 1947. Today�s society awards 
                      celebrity status to professional athletes of all races, 
                      and the popularity of African-American athletes has reached 
                      unprecedented levels; their influences go far beyond the 
                      court and field. 
 So, do these athletes 
                      like Hardaway have a responsibility to their fans, especially 
                      black ones, and society? Hardaway�s homophobia 
                      is shaped by a particular type of black masculinity that 
                      no longer has to break through this country�s color barrier 
                      to represent the race and prove athletic prowess or manhood 
                      in sports. The aggressive posturing 
                      and repudiation of LGBTQ people allows athletes like Hardaway 
                      to feel safe in the locker room by maintaining the myth 
                      that all the guys gathered on their team are heterosexual, 
                      and sexual attraction among them just does not exist. �I don�t think he should 
                      be in the locker room while we are in the locker room,� 
                      Hardaway said during that Miami interview. �If you have 12 other ballplayers in your locker room 
                      that�s upset and can�t concentrate and always worried about 
                      him in the locker room or on the court or whatever, it�s 
                      going to be hard for your teammates to win and accept him 
                      as a teammate.� This myth allows homophobic 
                      men like Hardaway to enjoy the homo-social setting of the 
                      male locker room that creates male-bonding - and the physical 
                      and emotional intimacy that goes on among them displayed 
                      as slaps on the buttocks, hugging, and kissing on the cheeks 
                      in a homoerotic context - while such behavior outside the 
                      locker would easily be labeled as gay. 
 In his book, Amaechi 
                      states, �The NBA locker room was the most flamboyant place 
                      I�ve ever been. Guys flaunted their perfect bodies. They 
                      bragged about sexual exploits. They primped in front of 
                      the mirror, applying cologne and hair gel by the bucketful. 
                      They tried on each other�s $10,000 suits, admired each other�s 
                      rings and necklaces. It was an intense camaraderie that 
                      felt completely natural to them.� In August, Sports 
                      Illustrated writer Dave Zirin caught up with Amaechi 
                      to get his take on Hardaway�s turn around. �I was in contact with 
                      the people he did his �emergency rehab� with after his �I 
                      hate gay people rant.� They were underwhelmed to say the 
                      least. Back then his contrition seemed more to do with the 
                      financial and reputation hit he had taken in the aftermath. 
                      However, it seems to me that this is a far more genuine 
                      piece of outreach ... I hope this is a story of true redemption 
                      rather than a savvy p.r. ploy. Either way, he is at least 
                      saying the right words, and that will make a positive difference.,� 
                      Amaechi told Zirin. But as we know, a change 
                      of words does not necessary bring about a change of heart. BlackCommentator.com 
                      Editorial Board member, the Rev. Irene Monroe, is a religion 
                      columnist, theologian, and public speaker. She is the Coordinator of 
                      the African-American Roundtable of the Center for Lesbian and 
                      Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry (CLGS) at the Pacific 
                      School of Religion. 
                      A native of Brooklyn, 
                      Rev. Monroe is a graduate from Wellesley College and Union 
                      Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served 
                      as a pastor at an African-American church before coming 
                      to Harvard Divinity School for her doctorate as a Ford Fellow. 
                      She was recently named to MSNBC�s list of 10 Black Women You Should Know. Reverend Monroe is the author 
                      of Let Your Light Shine Like a Rainbow Always: Meditations on Bible 
                      Prayers for Not�So�Everyday Moments. As an African-American 
                      feminist theologian, she speaks for a sector of society 
                      that is frequently invisible. Her website 
                      is irenemonroe.com. 
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