The
rich and powerful do not care about past, present or future
lives for the masses. For them, every day is a holiday full
of warmth and food and fun and money.
After
the annual national expression of the Thanksgiving myth
which distracts attention from the actual experiences of
the First People and the Pilgrims, thoughts of another myth
came to mind—that evil rich people are really nice people
waiting for the right dream. Then I read “My
Unemployed Life: The Forgotten Woman” by Mollie Harper
was posted on AOL online Nov 17th 2010 and sent to me. I
have shared it with many. Some wrote back being saddened
by it.. Here is a summary of her story: She is
a
41-year-old woman, never married with no children and
unemployed now for 836 days.
In
my previous life, I was a successful and effective CEO/CFO
of a construction company where I increased annual revenues
from $600,000 to $1.3 million in one year's time with
a 10 percent profit to the bottom line. I covered my salary
expense, increased the owner's annual compensation by
$70,000 and increased the pay and benefits for all employees.
. . I met the owner's goal of more time off, giving him
the opportunity to take six vacations in the last nine
months of my employment, and paid quarterly profit sharing
bonuses (based on company performance) to each of our
12 team members. I worked at the pace of a machine and
loved every second of it.
A
hard-hit industry
The
construction industry was one of the first industries
to take a hit when the economy crashed. Heartbroken, but
determined, I watched and assisted as the well-oiled machine
I helped build was disassembled one team member at a time
until it was my time to leave. The last I heard, the owner
has returned to work – running as a one-man entity and
surviving the best he can. Since losing my job, I have
literally applied to thousands of job opportunities, starting
first in my current city, then branching out to Florida
statewide, then countrywide, and eventually to jobs in
Canada, Ireland and Scotland. With each passing month,
then years, the reality set in that I have, in fact, been
discarded, thrown out, no longer useful or desirable to
any team anywhere.
“For
a woman like me -- single with no children -- my career
was my life . . . . coming to the realization that my
experience and skills are no longer desired . . is the
biggest and most painfully jagged pill I have ever been
forced to swallow.
A slow, painful loss
.
. . the magnitude of loss that accompanies unemployment.
What most people don't realize is that today's unemployed
are the lepers in society from years gone by. The judgment
and apathy you experience from others is indescribable
at best. I was once surrounded by hundreds of friends,
happy-hour invitations and social outings; now I am completely
and unequivocally on my own. Single in the truest sense
of the word. Oddly enough, my closest friends left first,
within the first six months. And as each month passed,
the phone calls of support lessened, the offers to help
disappeared and e-mails went unanswered.
Although
the isolation, rejection and abandonment by friends and
family are so unbearably painful some days that I pray
for days at time, I did find a strange new sense of empowerment
in my new life. There is comfort in knowing that all of
the false pretense, dead weight and lies are gone. While
walking a daily tightrope of not knowing whether I might
disappear into homelessness or suddenly get my lucky break
is exhausting beyond any ability to imagine, there is
something powerful about knowing that while you walk that
rope alone, you at least walk it in truth with honor.
Before
losing my job, my debts were paid on time. My credit score
was 785. I was never late on my mortgage or car payments.
I was neither rich, nor poor. I lived comfortably, never
wanting or needing more. I gave generously to my friends
and family, albeit putting little importance on saving.
Since losing my job, I've lost my car. My first home,
modest and old, is now in foreclosure. I have sold all
of my jewelry, some furniture, my surround-sound system,
childhood collectible dolls, bicycle and iPod. Golf clubs,
extra bedroom set, dining table – anything and everything
I have left is now has a price tag, listed in classified
ads and being peddled to friends and neighbors for pennies
on the dollar. But necessary pennies, needed to cover
the most basic expenses of toilet paper.
A
wise man once said ‘you can never give up, for you know
not what the tide will bring in.’ So every day, I continue
to create new resumes, apply to new jobs, network with
prospects, old friends or colleagues, sell the last of
my possessions and find small paying jobs wherever I can.
Most importantly, every day I pray. I pray for a light
to show me a way out of this darkness. I pray for all
of the others who feel exactly like me -- unloved, discarded,
forgotten. I pray for this country, for the blind to see.
I pray for an awakening for you, for us all, before it
is too late. I pray for one last chance to make a difference
in this world before I disappear.
I
wish Mollie’s story was unusual, unique. It is not. All
over the country, people continue to be thrown away. On
my TV, I listen to homeless citizens recounting their experiences
in this community. They appear regularly on municipal channels
supposed to broadcast “transparent” government meetings.
The homeless are intelligent and articulate because, unlike
the uneducated, unwashed hobo images of the past that are
still presented by homeless-haters, homeless/jobless/foreclosed
people are frequently well educated, highly experienced
people from a wide cross-section of jobs and careers, who
have lost their sources of income because of the machinations
of the rich. The profiteers, supported by friends in high
places, despite a so-called failing economy, are all making
record profits while the homeless, unemployed and foreclosed
are demeaned, denigrated and denied even the most miserly
amount of help.
Even
more heartlessly, the wealthy, power elite who decry “hand-outs,”
spend inordinate sums developing propaganda tools with which
they comprehensively flood the media to persuade those who
have been robbed of all possessions to oppose estate taxes.
This would be laughable if it were not evidence of the acceptance
of death sentences for the poor. Those who have lost their
homes and all possessions, whose lives are being cut short
by lack of health care or suicide, who have nothing to leave
their children but the road to foster care and/or incarceration,
are standing up for estate taxes or are persuaded to join
the military to prove patriotism. Those who join the military
to earn citizenship for themselves and their families are
not told that their families will be deported if they are
killed. Those who encourage their children or other loved
ones to join the military for future education benefits
or to avoid unemployment are not told that those whose mental
health deteriorates to suicide will be deemed cowards and
traitors and denied burial with others who die in military
sevice and are buried in Arlington National Cemetery. There
is always a catch to offers extended by those who are enriched
at the cost of the lives of others.
For
as long as most of us have been alive, Congress, Presidents,
state legislators and governors, mayors and city/county
councils have been “discussing” what to do about poor people,
now identified as the increasing homeless people—as if they
have nothing to do with them, as if they are some strange,
less-than-human beings whose condition is their own fault.
When the largest percentage of the homeless were military
veterans, many disabled (some as far back as Vietnam from
Agent Orange), they were described as if they were a bunch
of drug addicts deserving punishment for their own self-inflicted
pain. Efforts to isolate them included telling them that
the anti-war movement of the Vietnam-era, was actually against
those serving in the military which was not true then and
is not true now. The propaganda used to divide the nation
includes calling people unpatriotic if they wish to save
the lives of those in the military. The military seem to
be indoctrinated against trusting non-military people and
to ignore the common sense which has come from their own
experiences. The fact that people are struggling against
the injury and death of their sons and daughters, husbands
and wives, many of whom have nowhere else to work, is disregarded,
especially in the face of lies about terrorism, stories
about non-existent weapons of mass destruction.
Every
empire has exaggerated stories of glory to cover up acts
of inhumanity. To prolong ther existence, empires expand
the positive spin of their propaganda to persuade followers
to remain loyal and convince opponents of the futility of
resistance. The human spirit, however, has an indominable
determination to be free. Despite the records of history
which have repeatedly shown human spirit to be unstoppable,
despots and oligarchies continue to believe they can maintain
endless, absolute control by force and fear. In the period
just before each empire has fallen, there have been more
wars, more tortures, more poverty, greater concentration
of wealth in the hands of a few, and collapses of religion
and morality. Think of the Roman Coliseum—Circus Maximus—as
one example of the last days of the Roman Empire.
Now
this entire nation is submitting to demoralising touching
of entire bodies and requirements to remove artifical limbs
and other medical/prosthetic devices alledgedly to guard
against terrorism. President Reagan once derided Gobachev
with the words, “Tear down that {Berlin} wall” and millions
celebrated its end, then mourned the countless people whose
lives were shattered or ended in efforts to escape the torture,
militarization, poverty and suffering under the Soviet system.
Was
nothing learned from the world’s experience of the Berlin
Wall that can be applied to the wall being built along the
border between the US and Mexico? Where are all the religious
and activists? Why haven’t US presidents called for the
tearing down of this new wall? What have Mexicans and other
Latinos done to warrant the level of hatred represented
by a wall? It surely is not about terrorism or drugs. Terrorists
have been caught coming in through Canada, not Mexico, and
no wall is being built there. US presidents visit and maintain
relationships with Colomibia, probably the largest source
of imported, illegal drugs. Surely, Mexico does not top
that. But no walls are being built there.
We
are innundated with psychological strategies to condition
us to obey without question. Like the Spanish Inquisition
and Crusades of the past, people are tortured and murdered,
tortured to confess something, then murdered or left brain
dead. These acts were replicated in the Spanish, French,
English, Dutch, Portuguese, Belgian and Danish invasions
into the Americas, Australia, Africa and Asia where the
same enslavement/extermination practices were used to extract
as much of the resources as possible for monarchies, then
capitalists and other organized governments pretending interest
in a better world for workers—liars all!
If
there is any doubt about the way the Germans and other Europeans
closed their eyes to the extermination of 10 million Jews
and others, including the sick and disabled and citizens
of other countries, we have its re-enactment before us right
now in Congo, Somalia, Haiti, Iraq, Afghanistan, and New
Orleans, to name a few. Such horror is only possible with
mass acceptance and participation. The hands are bloody
of everyone who looks away when others are lied about, scape-goated,
discriminated against, excluded, cheated, enslaved, raped,
beaten, tortured, and killed, not to mention all the kinds
of slave trade—children, women, sex, drug-related, war-rationalized.
There
are so many religions and denominations within them. Which
of the has the values, philosophies and missions supporting
this inhumanity? Which are standing in opposition to it?
What large scale organizations can be pointed to as faithful,
honest advocates for humanity, justice, equality, kindness
for all? Which are led by leaders exemplifying in fact what
they say they stand for? Who is responsible for all the
silence? We are all already dying from a poisoned environment,
from curable diseases, from hatred. Once it was known that
Haitians had been infected with cholera, why were there
not massive vaccinations? For the same reason that victims
of Katrina are still homeles; the same reasons schools in
poor neighborhoods are being closed and sold to “businessmen”
to make a profit because the masses have been persuaded
that it is better to go along with slow murder than to resist
and be killed quickly. Yet empires cannot operate without
workers. Companies cannot run without employees. Every venture
must have those who implement it. Only workers, the masses
of the grassroots/working class, can bring about positive,
constructive change by refusing enslavement and opposing
the dishonest, negative myths about the homeless, unemployed
and poor and exposing the real differences in what we all
have or don’t have.
Reading
Mollie’s story of invisibility because she is unemployed,
I empathized with all that she continues to suffer and hope
she survives. So many are being sacrificed for the greed
and gain of others. Yet, however bad her circumstances,
those who have spoken up for justice and equality have often
suffered worse for decades. For them, the state of the economy
and variations in industries are not the causes. Mollie
has captured one especially important point, the women having
these experiences, especially women of color who are uniquely
subjected to both racism and sexism, have increased in invisibility
more than any other group and it is costing lives. The problems
are identified; solutions are available, but only to those
who refuse to be ignored and disposed of. If there is no
will to survive, there is no survival.
BlackCommentator.com Guest Commentator Suzanne Brooks is the founder and
CEO of International Association for Women of Color Day and CEO of Justice 4 All Includes Women of Color.
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