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Black Mother’s Day Story in the Age of Post-Race in Amerikkka Represent Our Resistance By Dr. Lenore J. Daniels, PhD BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board |
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It’s a simple story plot. Mother and daughter await the arrival of the “college girl.” College girl arrives. Mother hugs college girl, and the sister hugs college girl. Soon, it’s the mother and her daughters - and home. Family and friends come to be in the home of the mother and her daughters. Soon the college girl is among a collective, and they’re singing, eating, dancing, and laughing. “I wait in the yard that Maggie and I made so clean and wavy yesterday afternoon.” It’s more comfortable than most people would imagine, almost “an extended living room” where people can come and sit under the elm tree and feel the breeze. Maggie, a grown daughter now, is nervous. Maggie, “homely and ashamed of the burn scar down her arms and legs,” stands in a corner. “In real life,” the mother is a “big-boned woman” with “man-working hands.” She sleeps in flannel and works in overalls, because she works. There’s always work, from sunup to sundown. Her “fat” keeps her warm in cold weather. The mother “never had an education.”
But The daughter, the college girl, Dee, would read to her and Maggie: She “burned us with a lot of knowledge we didn’t necessarily need to know. Pressed us to her with the serious way she read, to shove us away at just the moment, like dimwits, we seemed about to understand.” “But there they are,” the mother observes. It’s Dee and her boyfriend. “What happened to ‘ What happened to What happened to the honored memory of an immediate
ancestor? What happens to that particular history of Big At the table, with the familiar stable
of what became known as “soul food,” the mother notes that the young
man doesn’t eat and “Aunt Dee’s first husband whittled
the dash,” Maggie says real low. But The mother knows now that there’s another kind of war. Her home has been invaded from without by means of someone within. Familial relationships have been fragmented. What is labeled by the outside - progress - turns out to be more than a singular point of attack. Send the weapons of mass, stealthy destruction out from within! When dinner was done, “Can I have these old quilts?” A girl has a warped sense of entitlement!! The mother heard something fall in the kitchen where Maggie was cleaning up. She asks They are Maggie’s quilts, the mother tells her. They have been passed to Maggie. “Maggie can’t appreciate these quilts!” The mother remembered that when she
offered one of the quilts to Dee before she left for college, And we will have nothing left that is ours. Everything can be categorized, appraised, and sold for a price - including our everyday humanity, becoming useful only to function within the market system. The mother knew this without the writer saying she did because she would know that her life and the life of her children depended on her knowing something that can’t be taught at educational institutions, an arm of the market system. “What would you do with them?” The only thing you “could” do - hang them! The only thing you could do with our history now - hang it in a display as something transcended, something distant, indeed, dead. Fill the new façade of attire, hair, and new names with emptiness. Fill it with other people’s values of what is and isn’t priceless. Substitute the functional with the trivial and the ultimate blurring of the other’s way of calculating the worth of human beings and their culture and history so as to make it less harmful, less threatening. Black lived experiences and heritage are a mere collection of anecdotes and artifacts to the daughter, the one who should pass it on. What happened to The mother looks at Maggie who had come out of the kitchen. “She can have them, Mama,” she said, like somebody used to never winning anything, or having anything reserved for her. “I can remember Grandma Dee without the quilts,” Maggie says. The mother looks at Dee, looks hard
at “I did something I never had done before: hugged Maggie to me, then dragged her on into the room, snatched the quilts out of Miss Wangero’s hands and dumped them into Maggie’s lap.” “Take one or two of the others.” Understand what? Your heritage! “You ought to try to make something of yourself, too Maggie. It’s really a new day for us. But from the way you and Mama still live you’d never know it.” The mother watches Maggie smile as
The same college girl appears today.
She out-numbers the Maggies of our community. Her name is neither Among her white friends, children of liberal parents, she fits right in. The white friends don’t need to know anything about her heritage, about her need to continue to resist. She doesn’t want to know either. The anecdotes and artifacts don’t even exist for her. Everything of the Black American past (and its future?) is an old memory belonging to the “Civil Rights” generation. This is what she’s learned, what she’s been taught to believe, so she doesn’t know that what she doesn’t know suits her friends and their parents just fine. She doesn’t know that it’s not her
idea or the ideas of her generation that seeks to eliminate the
struggle, to kill resistance to the fascist takeover beginning with
Blacks in And while the last 40 years since the “Civil Rights” movement has witnessed white backlash and has sent Blacks in America back 50 years, to a widening gap in health, education, employment but a higher rate of incarceration, she will hip hop to the mall with white friends singing of one America, signing “we are the same” - white Americans! Empire at its best work! They have taken our children and gone down the river with them where they’ve morphed into zombies. And the mothers and grandmas know the white people have done it again! They’ve conquered from within. They have come into the yard, one more time - and we let them in! The short story, “Everyday Use” (from In Love & Trouble: Stories of Black Women) was written by Alice Walker and published in 1973 (before the era of Black capitulation to the free market enterprise and Post-Race Amerikkka). BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member, Lenore Jean Daniels,
PhD, has been a writer, for over thirty years of commentary, resistance
criticism and cultural theory, and short stories with a Marxist sensibility
to the impact of cultural narrative violence and its antithesis, resistance
narratives. With entrenched dedication to justice and equality, she
has served as a coordinator of student and community resistance projects
that encourage the Black Feminist idea of an equalitarian community
and facilitator of student-teacher communities behind the walls of academia
for the last twenty years. Dr. Daniels holds a PhD in Modern American
Literatures, with a specialty in Cultural Theory (race, gender, class
narratives) from |
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