Filmmaker
Kevin MacDonald ’s documentary “Whitney” now in
theaters will add to the laundry list of films, biopics, interviews
about singer Whitney Houston. MacDonald’s portrait of the diva
phenom known to fans worldwide as “The Voice” is not a
must-see. However, the documentary does what other biopics didn’t
or couldn’t at the time- reveal that a female family member
sexually molested both Whitney and her brother.
In
this #MeToo movement disclosure of sexual molestation, abuse and
violence facilitates in breaking the century-long “politic of
silence” that continues to dog, mute, and harm the black
community.
It’s
somewhat troubling, however, how homophobia does, too, but my black
community -especially Christian and churched- don’t name this
killer.
For
example, 2017 was the year of open but not new revelations about
Whitney Houston.
Six
years ago, on Feb. 11, 2012, Houston was found dead in the bathtub of
her Beverly Hilton Hotel room on the eve of the Grammy Awards.
Allegations
at the time surfaced that pop superstar Whitney Houston was murdered.
These allegations flew counter to the Coroner’s Office report
that there was no sign of foul play or trauma. The official cause of
death months later according to the toxicology results revealed
Houston drowned due to drug intoxication.
While
a murder investigation was ramped up in 2012 to ascertain who killed
Houston, so, too, should’ve been a probe querying what killed
her.
While
family, friends, and fans blamed Whitney’s colossal downfall on
drugs and Boston’s bad boy Bobby Brown, both functioned to mask
her sexuality.
Now
six years since her death, curiosity about the legendary superstar
Whitney Houston’s sexuality has resurfaced again with
MacDonald’s documentary. Same-gender loving continues to be
conflated with same-gender violence which is why I was perturbed how
the narrative about Whitney’s sexual fluidity suggests sexual
confusion due to two females in her life - a female molester and a
lesbian friend.
Last
year there was a blitz of materials on Huston’s life and
legacy: Sunday New York Times article “Whitney Houston’s
Secret,” Bobby Brown’s second memoir “Every Little
Step,” and the then much talked about documentary “Whitney:
Can I Be Me”, and by far better than MacDonald’s
“Whitney.”
“I
don’t think she was gay, I think she was bisexual,”
stylist Ellin Lavar says in the documentary.
In
his memoir, Brown writes that Houston’s lesbianism was “an
open secret.”
“They
couldn’t let Whitney live the life she wanted to live; they
insisted that she be perfect, that she be someone she wasn’t,”
Mr. Brown writes. “That’s why they wanted Robyn out.”
Also,
drugs and Boston’s bad boy Bobby Brown helped Houston develop
an approving black identity.
What
is now an adoring and all-embracing black fan base of Houston was not
always the case. In 1989, Houston was booed at the Soul Train Awards
for supposedly “not being black enough.” It was at that
same show that she met Bobby Brown.
“I
have a theory about Whitney Houston,” said singer-actress Della
Reese, a longtime Houston family friend. “I’ve been
called ‘Uncle Tom,’ and I know how that feels. I think
Whitney was so hurt by being called a ‘sellout’ and
‘acting white’—and crap like that—she wanted
to change her image. What better way to do that than to marry a bad
boy? And the drug abuse makes her a flawed person fighting to
overcome her demons. Makes her relatable.”
Long
before Houston’s former chauffeur, Al Bowman, told the tabloid
television news show “Entertainment Tonight" he witnessed
Whitney and Bobby high on crack cocaine and in a threesome with an
A-list soul singer in the back of his limo, rumors that Houston was a
lesbian had been circulating for more than 30 years. And, Houston's
personal assistant, as well as best friend Robyn Crawford, was
rumored to have been Houston's lesbian lover. For a while, the two
women lived together.
Houston
exhibiting gender non-conforming behavior was no secret to those
closest to her. The Daily Mail reported that Houston's sister-in-law,
Tina Brown, and her ex-bodyguard, Kevin Ammons, both believed Houston
might have been a lesbian because she "had wild sex sessions
with women while out of her mind on crack cocaine."
But
it was her ex-spouse, Brown, who over time came to believe Whitney
married him with an ulterior motive.
"I
believe her agenda was to clean up her image, while mine was to be
loved and have children. The media was accusing her of having a
bisexual relationship with her assistant, Robin [sic] Crawford. Since
she was the American Sweetheart and all, that didn’t go too
well with her image. …In Whitney’s situation, the only
solution was to get married and have kids. That would kill all
speculation, whether it was true or not,” Brown penned in his
2007 tell-all book “Bobby Brown: The Truth, the Whole Truth,
and Nothing But..."
The
freest Houston may have been expressing her sexuality without being
drugged out of her mind might have been in 1999 at the 13th Annual
New York City Lesbian and Gay Pride Dance. Houston that year flew in
for a special surprise guest appearance where she performed her then
two most recent hits, "It's Not Right, But It's Okay," and
"Heartbreak Hotel."
Houston’s
mother, Cissy, a devout Christian and homophobe, never accepted her
daughter’s homoerotic feelings for Robyn Crawford. In her 2103
memoir “Remembering Whitney” Cissy wrote unabashedly of
her disdain for Crawford. Oprah that same year in an interview with
Cissy asked: “Would it have bothered you if your daughter was
gay?” “Absolutely,” Cissy snapped back. “You
wouldn’t have condoned it?” continued an incredulous
Oprah. “Not at all.
The
homophobic constraints of career and family expectations no doubt
contribute to the stressors in Whitney's "down low" life,
but so, too, the church, even at her "home-going,"
(funeral) service.
With
homophobes as family friends like Pastor Donnie McClurkin, the poster
boy for African American “ex-gay” ministries, and gospel
singers Angie and Debbie Winans, who released a single in 1998 titled
“Not Natural," in which they self-righteously denounced
LGBTQ people, to name a few, singing Whitney farewell only a "down
low" existence was possible for her.
“I
really feel that if Robyn was accepted into Whitney’s life,
Whitney would still be alive today,” Brown told Us Weekly
magazine.
I,
do, too!
We
may never know all the demons that took this international renown pop
star diva down a torturous and troubling road of self-destruction,
but one demon not mentioned is homophobia.
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