The
recent suicides of fashion designer Kate Spade https and CNN
celebrity chef host Anthony Bourdain and a few other celebrities
earlier this year sent shock waves throughout much of the
entertainment industry. Reaction from the public was one of
incredulity. Millions of people took to social media to express their
personal condolences and in some cases, weigh in and discuss their
own experiences with either flirting with the option of suicide or
reciting stories of friends, relatives, loved ones, neighbors and
others who had taken their own lives. It was a riveting spectacle to
behold.
It just
so happened that during this same time period, the Centers for
Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta released federal data
showing that suicide
rates
among Americans from 1999-2016 have been increasing for years in
almost every geographic region of the nation, and across
socio-demographic lines. Montana accounted for the highest suicide
rates among states. Interestingly, the only state that demonstrated a
decrease in suicides was Nevada. In spite of this fact, Nevada had
the ninth-highest suicide rate in the nation. North Dakota
experienced the highest increase at 58 percent during this time
period.
Among
other facts, the suicide rate for White people and White men in
particular increased dramatically. Moreover, what was also striking
is that data
from JAMA Pediatrics
confirmed that suicide rates among Black children 5-12 far exceeded
that of White youth in this same age range.
While both studies
provide various reasons for such situations in their findings, there
are likely a number of social and psychological issues that come into
play, as well:
Rural
isolation and high veteran population.
Large areas of states like North Dakota and Montana are rural,
sparsely populated areas where people are largely isolated from large
populations. Enduring such experiences frequently produces
circumstances for depression, anxiety and eventual suicide. Moreover,
Montana, in particular, has a large veteran population and statistics
demonstrate that veterans, given the latent trauma that many have
experienced while serving in combat, are prone to embrace suicidal
tendencies. Veterans have a suicide rate twice that of
non-veterans.
Pressure
to live up to stereotypes. We live in a
society that is still very sexist. From the early days of the
republic to Jacksonian America with its anti-intellectual mindset and
chivalrous sentiment to the rugged individualism of the late 19th and
early 20th centuries to the present, this has always been the case.
Testimonies from the multitudes of #MeToo victims who have shared
chilling accounts of abuse can attest to this fact. The fact is that
we live in a society where men are expected to be rough, rugged,
resilient and impervious. In essence, men are taught from an early
age to be as strong as possible. Show no tears and express no fears!
This means that many guys, rather than reaching out for assistance
and risking being seen as weak or socially inadequate when they
experience mental or emotional challenges or roadblocks, are more
inclined to forego any form of help and as a result tend to suffer in
silence. Such pain can result in anger, dark moods, physical and
psychological disorders and eventually death.
Racism
in America is still a strong force. The
fact is that many people of color face an onslaught of social
indignities on a routine and, in some cases, a daily basis. The past
few years (indeed past few months) have seen a dramatic increase in
racially charged conflicts in our nation. To be sure, racism affects
all people of color but it has always had a particular impact on
Black Americans given our long and frequently tormented and turbulent
history. Since landing on the shores of Jamestown, millions of Black
adults have countless stories of being racially profiled, having
their credentials by colleagues. being questioned or challenged,
stopped, interrogated and in a number of cases disrespected by law
enforcement and, in some cases, ordinary strangers. While enduring
such a chorus of disrespectful behavior can be a tumultuous
experience for adults, one can only imagine the psychological impact
that such unfair treatment can have on children, many of whom are not
equipped with the maturity and emotional resources that adults have.
Thus, it is not all that surprising that Black children who are often
not seen or treated as children, but rather as adults or misfits by
their teachers and the larger society, coupled with the economic
disenfranchisement and poverty that is so prevalent in many Black
communities, these children often experience disillusion and despair
that can result in many of these young kids giving up on life even
before they reach adulthood.
Disillusionment
with the American dream. For many White
Americans, particularly heterosexual White middle- and upper-income
White Americans, especially White men, there has always been an
investment in the early postwar (1945) philosophy that if they were
attractive, well groomed, intelligent, earned a college degree,
played by the rules, married the right type of spouse, behaved
condescendingly or demonstrated disdain toward the “appropriate
“ people – eg. non-Whites, gays and lesbians, disabled
people, poor people, in some cases, Jews, feminists etc., that they,
too, would rapidly ascend the ladder to success. The truth is that up
until the late 1970s, there was a large degree of truth in this
belief as upward mobility was the norm. On the contrary, since the
1980s, what many have found out is that the ladder has been pulled
out from under them. Factors such as unchecked globalization,
daunting neoliberalism, outsourcing, greed by corporations and other
similar plagues have dampened, if not outright, destroyed such
desires. Consequently, rather than driving comfortably down the
highway, they have found themselves on a dead-end road. Inhabiting a
degree of bitterness upon realizing such a revelation is only
natural.
Reasons and outcomes
aside, the truth is suicide is an event that results in pain,
disillusionment and despair for all who are affected by such
depressing and unfortunate tragedy. It is imperative that anyone who
is contemplating such a fate act aggressively, utilize all resources
and seek help ASAP. Their lives may literally depend on it.
Note:
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline number is 1-800-273-8255.
You also can text SIGNS to 741741 for anonymous, free crisis
counseling any time day or night.
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