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May 03, 2018 - Issue 740




Cosby, Meet Karma
Really Putting Women at the Center
of the
Anti-Violence Movement

 


"Despite the preponderance of evidence, there are
too many who believe in Cosby’s innocence. There
is a deep divide in the African American community
on the rape charges. That divide didn’t close with
the recent guilty verdict. We often give these
predators a pass because of who they are and because
we love them as the characters they play
in the entertainment-sports world."




Karma is one vindictive sistah of justice.

I thought about her unforgiving wrath with the recent guilty verdict of Bill Cosby. Cosby, once dubbed the “American Dad,” is the target of a parade of women who have made sexual allegations against the comedian-actor.

I admit that I was skeptical when the first rape accusation against Bill Cosby came out. My skepticism was not about inherently not believing rape victims; I’ve been working on violence against women for too many years to be in that camp. However, I cannot be oblivious to the history of Black men being falsely accused of rape white by women. Neither can I be dismissive of America’s treatment of Black men who get too big for their britches. But I was convinced of Cosby’s guilt long before the recent retrial of sexual assault of Andrea Constand.

For me, his character flaws became more real and large after criticizing Black mothers for buying their sons expensive Air Jordan tennis shoes instead of investing in Hooked on Phonics. It was downhill from there with more shaming of the Black community in his response to the Trayvon Martin murder by racist vigilante George Zimmerman. At the same time Cosby was hurling his moral and self-righteous indignities at Black working class families, he was actively preying on women knowing that his powerful status would provide him cover and protection.

Despite the preponderance of evidence, there are too many who believe in Cosby’s innocence. There is a deep divide in the African American community on the rape charges. That divide didn’t close with the recent guilty verdict. We often give these predators a pass because of who they are and because we love them as the characters they play in the entertainment-sports world.

This unconditional support of super-stars (and some not so super) is a critical reason why girls and women are reluctant to come forth when any form of sexual assault has been committed. It’s an environment that smacks a victim into shame and silence whether they are seven years young or 57 years old.

Cosby victims go way back. The public finally heard that these accusations have been swirling in Hollywood for decades. We finally heard that in Constand’s 2005 lawsuit that Cosby admitted to the use of Quaaludes and giving women Benadryl to cause drowsiness. The exact number of Cosby victims will probably never be known because in addition to rape, there was the groping, attempted rape and other forms of sexual harassment that women endured but decided to move on with their lives.

The Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN) reports that 68 percent of sexual assaults don’t get reported to authorities which means that 98 percent of the victimizers will face the justice they deserve. The refusal to believe a female has little to do with whether their attacker is a super-star. There are predators on the lower rung who have gotten away with their dastardly deeds simply because they were males and their voices carry more weight in a patriarchal society.

No matter how I’ve talked about rape from the standpoint of power and control—and having little to do with sex—I can’t count the number of debates I’ve had with men and women about what a woman did to deserve such a horrific assault. What about the shirt skirt she was wearing? And what time did she go to that man’s hotel room? Why would he have to rape her when he can get any woman he wants? How can it be rape when she knows him?

Sadly, these biased questions prevailed. My hope is that the #Me Too and the #Times Up Movements are going to take the issue of sexual violence to a much deeper place. A place where people can truly understand the underlying reasons for sexual control. A place where there’s a believing community support system to embrace a victim and not vilify him or her. A place where victimizers also get what they need in the form of psychological help and consequences.

I refused to shed a tear when heavy-weight boxer Mike Tyson went to jail for rape or when Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein crashed from grace. I won’t have any tears for Bill Cosby. Only sadness for his family who must suffer the shame he selfishly bought upon them. Only unconditional affirmation for his victims as well as other victims of sexual violence.

In ways big and small, we are all responsible for nurturing an anti-woman environment where our worth is routinely ignored and de-valued and therefore our pain and suffering becomes invisible. That means we must all commit to working together to make sure time’s up on sexual predators regardless of their relationship to the victim, race, popularity or status.


BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member and Columnist, Jamala Rogers, founder and Chair Emeritus of the Organization for Black Struggle in St. Louis. She is an organizer, trainer and speaker. She is the author of The Best of the Way I See It – A Chronicle of Struggle.  Other writings by Ms. Rogers can be found on her blog jamalarogers.comContact Ms. Rogers and BC.


 
 

 

 

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