BlackCommentator.com June 01, 2017 - Issue 701: A Pride Event not to be Proud of - Inclusion By The Reverend Irene Monroe, BC Editorial Board

June 01, 2017 - Issue 701

A Pride Event
Not to be Proud of

"Sadly, the growing distance between our larger
white LGBTQ community and LGBTQ communities
of color is shown by how, for an example, a
health issue like HIV/AID that was once an entire
LGBTQ community problem is now
predominately communities of color."

June is Pride Month for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) communities across the country — and parades abound.

While we all rev up each June for Pride so, too, do the fault lines of race and class in our larger white LGBTQ community.

With advances such as hate crime laws, legalization of same-sex marriage across the country, and with homophobia viewed as a national concern, the LGBTQ movement has come a long way since the first Pride march in 1969. Many laud the distance the LGBTQ community has traveled in such a short time as a disenfranchised group on the fringe of America’s mainstream to a community now embraced.

But not all members of our community have crossed the finish line. Some are waving the cautionary finger that within our community not all are equal. And pride events can be public displays of those disparities.

Cultural acceptance was just one of a few things LGBTQs of color did not experience from larger Pride events. As a predominately white event many LGBTQ of color revelers experienced social exclusion and invisibility. And, after decades of Pride events where many LGBTQ people of color tried to be included and were not - Black, Asian, and Latino Pride events were born.

For example, Sunday gospel brunches, Saturday night Poetry slams, Friday evening fashion shows, bid whist tournaments, house parties, the smell of soul food and Caribbean cuisine, and the beautiful display of African art and clothing are just a few of the cultural markers that make Black Pride distinct from the dominant queer culture. LGBTQ people of African descent have focused not only on HIV/AIDS but also unemployment, housing, gang violence, and LGBTQ youth homelessness.

Again, this June large communities of LGBTQ people of color will be absent from Pride. Boston Black Pride 2017 took place in February, offering hip-hop yoga, commemorating Black History Month and National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness, and a Mix and Mingle Drag Paint Party, to name a few.

Sadly, the growing distance between our larger white LGBTQ community and LGBTQ communities of color is shown by how, for an example, a health issue like HIV/AID that was once an entire LGBTQ community problem is now predominately communities of color.

In December 2014, The New York Times front-page article on HIV/AIDS was both shocking and unsparing stating, “The AIDS epidemic in America is rapidly becoming concentrated among poor, young black and Hispanic men who have sex with men.”

The news that is too often not reported or stays under the radar is the proactive steps this demographic group is taking to stem its spread- not only among themselves, but the entire community, too. And one of the reasons for not knowing what these men are doing to stem the epidemic is because their ways of reaching out to their brothers and sisters are both culturally creative and unconventional.

For example, in 2015 the Hispanic Black Gay Coalition (HBGC) in Boston kick-off event was the health expo “Our Health Matters, Too!” The expo was held at the gymnasium of the Epiphany School in Dorchester that was filled with health booths, workshops, exhibits and screenings. There were workshops on Sex Positivity, Prostate Health, Trans Health, Domestic Violence, and LGBTQ Depression, to name just a few. And there were screenings for the following: STDs, vision, hypertension, and HIV/AIDS. And the community came out.

While it might seem odd that LGBTQ people of color would prefer going to a school gym or a Pride picnic for health check-ups and information than to a hospital, the reasons are unfortunately rooted in the systemic healthcare disparities due not only to race discrimination, but also to gender identity and sexual orientation as well.

Massachusetts is known as queer-friendly and for its outstanding hospitals across the country. People travel from other states and countries to be cared for. But adequate, culturally competent, and compassion healthcare for its LGBTQ population is still gravely lacking, especially when it comes to communities of color.

Unlike the revolutionary decade of the 1960s during which the air bred dissent, our LGBTQ agenda has moved from our once urgent state of, “Why we can’t wait!” to our present lull state of, “Where do we go from here?”

Where we go from here now, in my opinion, is in recognizing the need to network and build coalitions beyond one’s immediate communities; thus, creating an intersectional social justice activism throughout our Commonwealth to foster healthy and wholesome communities.

While Pride events are still fraught with divisions, at their core, Pride events are an invitation for community to connect its political activism with its celebratory acts of song and dance in its continued fight for justice. They should highlight the multicultural aspect of joy and celebration that symbolizes not only our uniqueness as individuals and communities, but also affirms our varied expressions of LGBTQ life in America.

But, as long as LGBTQ communities of color continue to be absent each June, Pride month is an event to not be proud of.

BlackCommentator.com Editorial Board member and Columnist, The Reverend Monroe is an ordained minister, motivational speaker and she speaks for a sector of society that is frequently invisible. Rev. Monroe does a weekly Monday segment, “All Revved Up!” on WGBH (89.7 FM), on Boston Public Radio and a weekly Friday segment “The Take” on New England Channel NEWS (NECN). She’s a Huffington Post blogger and a syndicated religion columnist. Her columns appear in cities across the country and in the U.K, and Canada. Also she writes a column in the Boston home LGBTQ newspaper Baywindows and Cambridge Chronicle. A native of Brooklyn, NY, Rev. Monroe graduated from Wellesley College and Union Theological Seminary at Columbia University, and served as a pastor at an African-American church in New Jersey before coming to Harvard Divinity School to do her doctorate. She has received the Harvard University Certificate of Distinction in Teaching several times while being the head teaching fellow of the Rev. Peter Gomes, the Pusey Minister in the Memorial Church at Harvard who is the author of the best seller, THE GOOD BOOK. She appears in the film For the Bible Tells Me So and was profiled in the Gay Pride episode of In the Life, an Emmy-nominated segment. Monroe’s coming out story is profiled in “CRISIS: 40 Stories Revealing the Personal, Social, and Religious Pain and Trauma of Growing up Gay in America" and in "Youth in Crisis." In 1997 Boston Magazine cited her as one of Boston's 50 Most Intriguing Women, and was profiled twice in the Boston Globe, In the Living Arts and The Spiritual Life sections for her LGBT activism. Her papers are at the Schlesinger Library at Radcliffe College's research library on the history of women in America. Her website is irenemonroe.com. Contact the Rev. Monroe and BC.